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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

If you want to be admired and to impress: Go green.

I am not teaching people to be admired. That’s not my concern. I am teaching people to live authentically to themselves, EVEN THOUGH they’ll get no admiration for it. My goal as a coach is entirely different than “how to get admiration.” But if that’s what you’re looking for, go green. EVERYBODY will admire people […]

Bad sex is had to impress/please a third party

People have bad sex all the time. The purpose of it is to “be right” by someone else’s standards. To impress somebody, like the genuine target of their sexual attraction, that may not be gender compatible. For example, a closet lesbian woman may try to impress a straight woman she has a crush on by […]

If you’re trying to impress others (to not lose face) do this.

Play down your own intelligence to boost the ego of an intelligent person There are people who think that smart or talented people are always functioning from full ego and narcissism, and they feel that to make friends with someone like that, they have to fully devote themselves to the worship of their idol’s intelligence. […]

Don’t trust people who are going to use you to impress someone else

If you’re in any way interesting high-profile person, even a high school popular kid or an Instagram model, there are going to be people who want to be your friend in order to impress someone else. You can tell if you pay a little attention to it, but you might not notice when you’re not […]

You may not like dressing up to impress, but girl/man, it’s a ritual.

If you pulled up this post, this is a reminder for you to get your feathers on and go out there – your True Emotion Mirror doesn’t realize you want them because you’re always so… Drab! They love you, but they see you putting 0 effort into grooming yourself for them, so they think you’re […]

With any level of impressiveness comes the unimpressed narcissistic help seekers.

When a narcissist sees a person who they find impressive or a threat to their idea of reality (they are the best), their first instinct is two-fold: a) prove to themselves that this person is not impressive at all and b) if they find them impressive, to make them a part of their court, their […]