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Wednesday, January 22nd, 2025 at
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January 22, 2025 Tags: Internet, reality check
People who believe in their capacity to create a beautiful, happy reality, even a perfect life in the very real world, will prefer reality to telling lies to themselves. People who don’t see how they could possibly create the life they actually want in reality are very likely to prefer play-pretend to reality. Obviously. If […]
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Wednesday, November 20th, 2024 at
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November 20, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Internet, love
There are trans women who we absolutely adore. Both fictional and real. It is easy to say that we love and accept transwomen who look like women, act like women, and think like women, but then there are transwomen who are obviously biologically male, some rocking a full beard, and we adore them, too. To […]
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Tuesday, November 12th, 2024 at
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April 5, 2025 Tags: gratitude, Internet, media, Narcissism, social media, Virtues and Vices
You know the narcissistic social media post, don’t you? “I have such a rich life; I’m blessed.” “I am so grateful of all these wonderful friends I’ve got…” “Life, perfect!” To a normal person, their level of gratitude seems absolutely mental. Cannot be real. We scoff at them when we see their very ordinary life […]
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Tuesday, November 5th, 2024 at
2:10 am in Australia - Last edit on
November 5, 2024 Tags: Emotional Boundaries, Healthy Masculinity, Internet, Respect, secrets, Self-Worth
There are times when people keep you at an arm’s lenght to protect you and to respect you. They may not be the kind of a person you think they are and they are acutely aware of that. Therefore, they keep you out of their lives. They may think you are naive, but they still […]
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Friday, November 1st, 2024 at
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April 5, 2025 Tags: Internet, love, Narcissism
Can you agree with this statement: There is no shame in loving this person because they are awesome, and you aren’t too stupid or self-centered to notice. If you feel it’s to YOUR CREDIT that you love them, it doesn’t sound like love but that you’re obsessed with them for some other reason? You want […]
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Sunday, September 29th, 2024 at
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September 29, 2024 Tags: Internet
The only thing keeping you from getting what you want, true love, sex, the perfect job, whatever it is that your heart desires, is that you haven’t figured out the reasons why you can’t have it now. You can. You are not in any way especially exempted from having it, nor are people who have […]
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Wednesday, September 11th, 2024 at
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April 5, 2025 Tags: Internet, Narcissism, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, Soulmates, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love
I have a bit of a love affair with online dating, I must admit. I find it a romantic idea, that you’ll meet someone you had no way of meeting otherwise through this thing… Meeting of minds so similar, at vast distances, not because you were both raised the same way, but because you both […]
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Wednesday, September 4th, 2024 at
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September 4, 2024 Tags: Internet
#1 rule: Your emotions are what’s going to get you into trouble here, and your brain is the part that gets you out of it. Your “gut feeling” will lie to you because you want it to. You have to think your way through a potential scammer situation, NOT follow ‘instincts’. You don’t have ‘instincts’ […]
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Wednesday, August 7th, 2024 at
12:15 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 7, 2024 Tags: Internet, media, social media
General: Reward behavior you like with attention as much as you can, EVEN IF the person wasn’t after attention per se. Ignore nasty comments. Like posts that you like. Hold comments for review where possible and have a staff member read them before you. Reply to as many nice people in your comments as you […]
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Wednesday, July 31st, 2024 at
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July 31, 2024 Tags: Abuse, Internet
What the Young Soul* want when they pick a fight is to gain attention to their own problems and inadequacies. They want someone they admire to go: “Well, look who is talking, it’s not like you know the first thing about doing makeup/working out/healthy eating/philosophy/love….” They assume that if YOU NOTICE that they don’t know […]
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