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Why is reality so important to some people, when they could just lie to themselves a little?

People who believe in their capacity to create a beautiful, happy reality, even a perfect life in the very real world, will prefer reality to telling lies to themselves. People who don’t see how they could possibly create the life they actually want in reality are very likely to prefer play-pretend to reality. Obviously. If […]

Why do we love some obviously male transwomen and hate others?

There are trans women who we absolutely adore. Both fictional and real. It is easy to say that we love and accept transwomen who look like women, act like women, and think like women, but then there are transwomen who are obviously biologically male, some rocking a full beard, and we adore them, too. To […]

A narcissist may actually feel all the gratitude that they display on their social media even though their lives are pretty ordinary.

You know the narcissistic social media post, don’t you? “I have such a rich life; I’m blessed.” “I am so grateful of all these wonderful friends I’ve got…” “Life, perfect!” To a normal person, their level of gratitude seems absolutely mental. Cannot be real. We scoff at them when we see their very ordinary life […]

Some secrets are kept from you out of respect for you.

There are times when people keep you at an arm’s lenght to protect you and to respect you. They may not be the kind of a person you think they are and they are acutely aware of that. Therefore, they keep you out of their lives. They may think you are naive, but they still […]

Another Are You Actually In Love or is this some other kind of bullshit -test

Can you agree with this statement: There is no shame in loving this person because they are awesome, and you aren’t too stupid or self-centered to notice. If you feel it’s to YOUR CREDIT that you love them, it doesn’t sound like love but that you’re obsessed with them for some other reason? You want […]

You can have everything you want in this world after you figure out some things.

The only thing keeping you from getting what you want, true love, sex, the perfect job, whatever it is that your heart desires, is that you haven’t figured out the reasons why you can’t have it now. You can. You are not in any way especially exempted from having it, nor are people who have […]

(Online) Scam or a True Emotion Mirror?

I have a bit of a love affair with online dating, I must admit. I find it a romantic idea, that you’ll meet someone you had no way of meeting otherwise through this thing… Meeting of minds so similar, at vast distances, not because you were both raised the same way, but because you both […]

Cat Fishing, online scammers – how do you know?

#1 rule: Your emotions are what’s going to get you into trouble here, and your brain is the part that gets you out of it. Your “gut feeling” will lie to you because you want it to. You have to think your way through a potential scammer situation, NOT follow ‘instincts’. You don’t have ‘instincts’ […]

Your New Complete Social Media Strategy

General: Reward behavior you like with attention as much as you can, EVEN IF the person wasn’t after attention per se. Ignore nasty comments. Like posts that you like. Hold comments for review where possible and have a staff member read them before you. Reply to as many nice people in your comments as you […]

Someone picking a fight? Do you get hate-comments online or in person?

What the Dog Type Thinker want when they pick a fight is to gain attention to their own problems and inadequacies. They want someone they admire to go: “Well, look who is talking, it’s not like you know the first thing about doing makeup/working out/healthy eating/philosophy/love….” They assume that if YOU NOTICE that they don’t […]

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