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Why do some people accept a breakup so easily?

When you “went through a lot together,” reconsider what it was that you went through with them… Did you GO THROUGH things, or did you RATHER put them through a lot of shite FOR YOU? Did they have that SAME bonding experience as you did, or could it be that they rather felt violated, abused, […]

If my child wants to marry some creep, do I have to just silently accept it?

Yes, and no. While a Cat Thinking child will marry any creep they like with or without your support, the Young Soul* Thinking child will change their mind if you object. A the Cat Thinking child will stand their ground about this if they truly love that person, and the Young Soul* Thinking child will […]

Why do some people poke at you ALL THE TIME?

Emotionally unstable people don’t seem to understand calm people. A calm person makes them nervous. They believe they’re “full of anger,” or “suppressing their emotions,” or “tense,” when in fact, you’re just calm. Therefore, they may try to invoke an emotional response in you to “help you vent.” In doing so, they may wind up […]

Yes. Some of us really like sex.

It may come as a shock to you that the love of sex isn’t a gender thing. Some of us women do love sex, and we want a sexual relationship that lasts a lifetime. The ultimate dream may be to find someone you feel sexually attracted to from the start and to whom that attraction […]

Celebrity; when you get a lot of fan mail… With romantic and sexual suggestions inside… And you want to consider some.

So you have a pile of fan mail delivered to you on a regular basis. You know the gist of most of it before you open the damned things.  How should you weed through the pile? Imagine the kind of person you’d like to hear from. Imagine what kind of an envelope they’d use. Would […]

Why some people won’t understand you no matter what you say.

When a person has a persistent self-image or image of other people, and an idea of their position in this world, they may reject everything that contradicts this idea as “nonsensical” no matter what you say to them. For instance, some people believe that whatever they want is denied from them but not other people, […]

Why are some people so strict about who they want to date, that it’s completely nitpicky?

While this is none of your god damned business as all you need to know is are they interested in dating you or not, the rest of it is their business, but I’m going to answer you anyway. First of all, you have to stop the habit of trying to make someone change their mind […]

Some transsexual and transvestite men could be, possibly, “too straight” to direct sexual attention on women.

Contrary to a popular belief, I do attain that most men are bisexual, and most women are bisexual. I further observe, that most women are polygynous (leaning toward a marriage-like relationship between ONE man and several women, which means their “lesbian” side is stronger while their “hetero” side is very selective,) and most men are […]

Phew. From penniless to… Having some pennies

I am fairly positive, that my spirit invited a minor crisis on just for the entertainment value and for learning to appreciate the small things again. After a pretty nice run on Bitcoin, I made a terrible decision and lost a lot of money – not my initial investment or anything that bad, but I […]

Second Life as your New Romantic Life testing platform

Second Life is a very open-minded platform. Being a role-playing game, there is no need to pretend to be something you’re not, but you can openly pretend to be someone else, living a different type of lifestyle. As you explore the archives here on my blog, I encourage you to create an avatar on Second […]

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