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Second Life as your New Romantic Life testing platform

Second Life is a very open-minded platform. Being a role-playing game, there is no need to pretend to be something you’re not, but you can openly pretend to be someone else, living a different type of lifestyle. As you explore the archives here on my blog, I encourage you to create an avatar on Second […]

To some people one-sided love is just fate or something

To my shock and horror, it is not obvious to some people that one-sided love is not a basis for a relationship. They seem to take one-sided love as fate dictating who gets to be loved and who has to be the servant in the relationship.

Should you limit your time on Social Media (or whatever is your current favorite time waster)?

What annoys me about “efficiency” motivators, is that they make you think like the purpose of your life would be… Well, efficiency. Constant, relentless efficiency. Stress about not stressing, stress to relax, rush around and worry if your every minute is spent to the fullest of it’s potential. If you enjoy the Internet, social media, […]

Why do people online seem like they’re not even the same person you know in real life?

When you interact one-on-one with someone in real life, they will customize their expression and opinions to you, more or less. Most people don’t downright lie to your face, but some people actually do; from creating a fake backstory to just lying about liking the same music as you do. Creating an entirely new persona […]

An Internet Troll looks for people who react.

When you get attacked by an Internet troll it has nothing to do with you. None whatsoever. You didn’t say anything wrong; you didn’t insult, anger, or outrage, but an internet troll attacked you MAINLY because you seem like a nice person. The logic here is thus: Nice people are good to have as friends. […]

Why some people can’t trust nice people (and why nice people don’t care).

So. There are nice, kind people in this world who don’t have to TRY to be nice, even though they sometimes feel the pressure to pretend they like you more than they do; they simply ARE nice and well-intentioned. Their biggest joy is to make people happy, to uplift them, and to help people grow […]

When the public (social media) idea of you is something completely fictional…

“Oh, but you’re not selfish at all!” a fan who has finally met you finds. While it’s nice to be nicer than expected, it’s hardly fun to have good people avoid your company because they believe nobody would LIE about a person and give them a bad reputation or put them in a bad light […]

Some people do not have a casual chit chat mode at all. There’s nothing wrong.

Some people (dog-type) have a habit of signaling relaxation and that everything is fine by chit-chatting about nothing in particular. They make remarks about the weather, run a task list of things to do for the day, dappidedoodaa of nothing in particular when everything is fine. Some people, the Old Souls*, NEVER do this. This […]

Dealing with online negativity and turning it into a spiritual power tool

This is a spiritual power tool that will make you AMAZING in no time flat, but it takes a TON of COURAGE to get started with. Nobody enjoys being disliked. Some people seem to enjoy or be indifferent to negative attention, but they seem to equate negative attention with jealousy and envy and think nothing […]

How the Young Soul*people turn “everyone” against you online.

The online world used to be awesome when it took forward-thinking, progressive, and smart the Old Souls* to populate it. When the Young Soul* still scoffed at the whole idea as “stupid.” The Internet was a supportive, fun, humorous place where you could find your tribe quite easily among like-minded people. Not so much anymore. […]

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