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Some Anger May Rise

I wanted to tell you one more thing before we get into the deep with this. It is more than normal and expected, that some anger will rise when you get closer to the real you. This is because you realize that the person you have been trying to change into something else is not […]

Online dating will involve a healthy amount of talk about sex. It should.

I love online dating. I love it mainly because of the incredible amount of good stuff that comes into your inbox. I love the conversations about relationships, sex, and sexuality, all those topics that normally wouldn’t happen, but on a dating site is a natural thing to discuss, even if only on a theoretical level. […]

Why do some people (the Normal Person*) fear sex?

Remember that for the Normal Person*, everything is a social or a communal thing. Sex is no different. The Normal Person* have an interesting fear of intimacy. They fear everything one-on-one, because that, to them, feels like they have been ousted from the security of the group. When separated from the group, they feel they […]

How some women (systematically) abuse men

Men tend to take it for granted that a woman who wants to marry him will show a level of abuse towards him. This abuse is mostly verbal, aiming to “put him in his place” and to force him into the role of a husband. This, when it comes from a woman you truly love, […]

Some people are “born older” than others

I have quipped a few times that I’m not going to bother proving or arguing that we reincarnate. To me, this is such a strong no-brainer. I am not even sure if I could prove it, but I can certainly make some sound arguments on its behalf. For now, I’ll just throw in a few […]

Social media over-hyping and undermining high quality web

In the dawn of times that matter to me, ie. when I first got online in 1998 and my life took a sudden upward swing in all things awesome, everything online was still fun and games and the big businesses were trying to wrap their heads around what to do with the damned thing. Still, […]

Who else can read your private messages online?

When using direct and private messages on Twitter or Facebook or other services, you might not have thought that these messages are not encrypted in the database. What this means is that without a password, the administrators of the database have an access to the private messages. On a site the size of Twitter or […]

Why some people have such an unrealistic self image physically

It is the taboo. You do not explain to someone less attractive than you that you know exactly why all the girls or guys go for you instead of your less attractive friend, who is a good person, and an upstanding citizen, but who simply cannot get laid if his or her life depended on […]

Why does sleeping with men on the first date work so well for some women?

Some women lose a man’s respect for them if they sleep with them on the first date (or too soon) while other women can sleep with a ton of men openly, and still be respected and admired by men. What is the difference? Men are not stupid. They are also not insensitive or easily fooled. […]

[a term I shall no longer use on this blog] s – the last of my gripes

A summary of the reasons why I feel strongly that IN MOST CASES people would be better of not taking the True Emotion Mirror theory too seriously, although, in some rare cases it either doesn’t matter or does even actually help things along… But for the rest of us, this belief might do more harm than good.

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