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My child thinks I am stupid / I think my child is stupid.

Both the Modern and Timeless people think the parent’s duty is to direct and support their child in their future life goals. HOW that’s done is a slight difference between the thinker types, and that makes all the difference in whether this relationship is functional or not. The Modern and the Timeless are rarely oriented […]

No point being angry at stupid. The Sun won’t change direction, and Santa won’t become real.

This is as much a note to myself as it is for you. I always anger when people try to convince someone who does not love them to love them, or to express love to them. I can’t understand how someone could be so stupid they try to push love into existence by nagging at […]

How do you know if someone is pretending to be dumb or are they actually that stupid?

The first question is: What are they possibly trying to achieve by acting stupid? Your first assumption, if you’re smart, is to contemplate that they’re trying to gain money, power, or status through you by lowering your defenses and then launching a clever attack on you when you least suspect. But you go through your […]

Self-confidence and intelligence have no direct correlation.

How do you know you’re… Stupid was the question of the day, rather than how do you know you’re smart. Here are some pointers: Society at large is created for the average person to navigate with relative ease, and regular schools are designed for the average person. Everyday jobs are for the regular person. If […]

Why is it so hard to win a battle against stupid people?

If you are smart, I guarantee you that your hardest opponent to win is not a smart person but a stupid person. This is true almost anywhere where the pure fight of intelligence is not carefully pre-calculated, like in a game of Chess. Where rules are in any way hazy, stupid has the upper hand, […]

Even smart people miss details and get ideas from elsewhere.

While the best way to be original is to never copy anybody, you can still keep your eyes open to find tips and clues from other people. Especially with computers, things more so fast these days that there’s simply no real way to keep on top of absolutely all of it. The way we also […]

Don’t protect your “love” by not looking at them with your eyes open. You might be in love with the real thing and not even know it, you moron.

When you go through a few of these moments, you know you’ve pinned your hope on someone special, and it all turns out to be a big fantasy; you may feel fear about committing to anyone – the better it looks, the scarier it can get. The thing I want you to start doing, with […]

Why do people rely on smart people when they don’t want to hear the truth?

It is an interesting skill to fool oneself into believing everything is fine and one’s doing great. One method of self-delusion is to go to a person who is known to be smart with pre-held instructions on what to tell you. When the smart, trusted person picks up on your intent and tells you what […]

Why high IQ and high sex drive might be linked.

If you see this post, it is shown to you to offer you something to study. I am not an expert, this is a suggestion to you: It seems to me that the higher a person’s IQ, the “kinkier” and the more sexually driven they are. I personally do not know a genius, male or […]

How do smart people know things (and eliminate their own mistakes)?

People who are not very smart may wonder how “smart people” know things. I’ll try to explain. All people use trial and error as their method of learning to some extent. It is the most “animal” way of doing things. “I don’t know, but I’ll try it.” Sometimes, it seems to be the best way […]

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