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I’m polyamorous, but I don’t know how to handle my jealousy. What to do?

I’ve filed this question under the “main trap relationship” (at least at the time of writing this) because this is definitely “a main trap” question. Don’t get me wrong, I’m a polyamorist and fully, fully support the idea most of us are. Still, if you are doing polyamory as a growth exercise, to “learn to […]

“After you, dear Alphonse”, – Why “No Jealousy” is a Bad Poly-policy.

Polyamorists often feel proud of feeling no jealousy over their partners. However, jealousy can be a powerful aphrodisiac to people who are used to having everyone by the snap of their fingers, and who feel that they are having things a little too easy at times… and love the idea of having same-gender partners who are equal to them and well equipped to stealing attention from them at times…