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Thrive for perfectionism and letting go of the outcome

Lover-thinking* and Cat Type Thinking* interaction is often a battle over what is a worthwhile level of effort, and whether, for instance, thriving for physical beauty is acceptable or simply vanity. The Young Soul* want to relax the Old Souls* by insisting they shouldn’t waste time and effort on “something so pointless” as well, physical […]

Letting go of the outcome of True Emotion Mirrors.

You have to trust something: the person who you are is attractive to the person(s) who is (are) your True Emotion Mirror(s) and Precious Soulmates. No matter how you do it. The way YOU do YOU is what is attractive to the right people. While your True Emotion Mirrors want you to charm them, they […]

Letting go of it; why does the Law of Attraction require you to let go of what you want?

You may have studied the Law of Attraction. It states that you have to become very clear about what you want, visualize it, put energy to it, and yet, somehow give up on it – let go of it. There’s a reason why that’s important. If you hold onto something your negative spirit attachments (or […]

Letting go and holding on – the balance point to find with your True Emotion Mirror

Life is a constant balancing act. We tend to over-correct sometimes, when we realize we’ve made a mistake, we tend to over-correct to the other extreme. Letting go is one of those things. When we realize we are hurting someone we love by desperately hanging onto them despite them not loving us back, we stop […]

Letting go of the need to be in control of what you can’t control

Proud control freaks, attention, please. There are things you can control, and there are things you cannot control. Then, there are things you’d be very stupid trying to control. This is the wisdom to know the difference. You cannot (directly) control How other people feel (about you). (You can control their behavior and their spoken […]

True Emotion Mirrors – If you cannot let go, try letting go of letting go

The message to let go and to not be needy or clingy can be so overwhelming – and I certainly haven’t been quiet about it myself – that we cannot let go of the must of letting go. We start clinging onto the need to let go and then can’t let go. So… Let go […]

Letting go of people easier by love, not by self-denial

You know how we try to do it… When we feel our love isn’t welcome, we start fighting against ourselves and the love we feel and we try to talk ourselves out of loving the other person as much as we do… If this is a half-ready True Emotion Mirror bond, it is important for […]

Letting go of letting go – Obsess all you want

There’s a time for everything, says the Bible, and for once, I couldn’t agree more. There’s a time to obsess, there’s a time to chill. I know first hand how hard it is to tell when you’re taking things overboard. When you’re doing too much, trying too hard, putting in too much effort and being […]

If you cannot let go, try letting go of letting go

The message to let go and to not be needy or clingy can be so overwhelming that we cannot let go of the must of letting go. We start clinging onto the need to let go and then can’t let go. So… Let go of letting go. Give yourself the permission to remain obsessed for […]

Letting go of a True Emotion Mirror and when not to do it

First, if you haven’t read my previous post about letting go and allowing people make their own choices for themselves, you might want to read that. But in summary, I was talking about how letting go is an emotional state rather than a behavior. Today, I’ll discuss another feeling of having to hold onto someone, […]

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