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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

Do not get into a relationship with a “I’ll change him/her to a better person” mindset (without a permission).

Some people want to be a project to their lover, yes. There are people who wish someone would see their potential to be a perfect person. Sometimes, they dress in a weird way to denote that they are in dire need of someone to help them figure things out, but other people may dress in […]

No point being angry at stupid. The Sun won’t change direction, and Santa won’t become real.

This is as much a note to myself as it is for you. I always anger when people try to convince someone who does not love them to love them, or to express love to them. I can’t understand how someone could be so stupid they try to push love into existence by nagging at […]

One of those points of growth and healing: you’ll stop TRYING to LOOK balanced or healthy.

There are certain behaviors and attitudes that are generally considered “unhinged,” “unbalanced,” “pathological,” or simply “childish.” It is always one way to control another person’s behavior is to try and unnerve them by saying their behavior is something along those lines, “not healthy” or “not mature.” One of the ways people will mature over time […]

Why you must stop using negative words of yourself, even in humorous intent, if you don’t want to change what it refers to about yourself.

When the Modern senses that you are not 100% satisfied with yourself, they always see an opportunity to make themselves your coach and savior. While they can be good for that, sometimes, for the most part, the Timeless don’t want them in their business. That is why you’ll have to find a positive or neutral […]

They don’t get to change you in order to make money out of you.

the Dog Type Thinker think that the Cat Type Thinkers thrive for perfection in order to be loved. In fact, we do the opposite. We try NOT TO be so ambitious so that we’d be accepted. Not loved, but accepted. We know the difference between love and acceptance very clearly. Just because you accept someone’s […]

Do you have to change friends to cut away from poverty?

Years ago, I read a book about the Law of Attraction, and it said you have to drop your friends so you can break free from their lower thinking. I thought, “Surely not!” After all, who wants to live like that?! Luckily, that is not entirely correct. You have two options. You either share your […]

You can’t ask someone to change their feelings… How they feel about what is going on.

Imagine being tied down in a dungeon and being tortured. The torturer is angry at you for not enjoying it. This is no BDSM dungeon either; it’s not like your limits are being respected. This is a torture chamber, but the torturer thinks this should be fun for you, too, considering he’s enjoying it so […]

The fact you’re willing to stick around won’t change the way they feel about you.

Although physioamorists will fall for the person who sticks around long enough, it won’t have the slightest effect on the feelings of a sapioamorist, but they may grow more irritated about you still being there over time. They fall for the way people ARE (think/feel), not what they DO (for others, even).  

Allow people the opportunity to change their minds through a realization or new evidence.

Everybody who studies anything can draw incorrect conclusions from the evidence they have. Particularly when the study is largely based on personal observation (empiric evidence), the chances of it being lacking or, inconclusive or misdirected at first is high. This doesn’t mean that they were lying to you or that they are not worth their […]

Just change your mind

One way others can lock you into a position that isn’t good for you is by holding you to an old principle, decision, or ideal. You can change your mind about things. Just drop the decision; go rogue.

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