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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Life Transitions, Thinker Type
the Dog Type Thinker experience pressure to change and conform (to relationship demands) differently from the Cat Type Thinkers. The Cat Type Thinkers are what they are, and giving them time to adjust to something won’t make them HAPPIER about it, it simply makes them submit to a fate that they cannot change. This will […]
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Friday, August 18th, 2023 at
10:48 pm in Australia - Last edit on
August 18, 2023 Tags: Heartbreak, Life Transitions
This is why you might want to try, too: The last I was at this weight was around 20; I’m now 47. 75kg = 165 pounds, 60.8 kg = 134 pounds. 13.8 kilos = 31 pounds in less than a year. (I lost about 1 kilo, which is a bit over 2 pounds of weight […]
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Sunday, April 2nd, 2023 at
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Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
Here’s the thing: The TRUTH doesn’t change. Opinions change, the truth does not. Good children have always been raised with the same method: A balance of permissiveness and discipline. Good adulthood has always been lived the same way: A balance of fun and responsibility for others. If you want a solid base for your life, […]
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Friday, February 17th, 2023 at
3:00 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Cat Type Thinkers, Life Transitions, Thinker Type, warnings
When the Cat Type Thinkers “change” what is actually happening is that as they become more self-aware, they’ll make that awareness seen on the outside. The Cat Type Thinkers like to show everything that they are at once, and they can drop previous habits and expectations that they felt raised into and pressured into, rather […]
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Tuesday, January 3rd, 2023 at
12:22 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
Here’s the mathematics in relationships: If you are rejected by a person who thinks you’re not what they want, but you’re not willing to do the work to reach their level, either you think they’re not good enough for you or they’re right, and you’re not good enough for them. If you’re in love with […]
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Sunday, January 1st, 2023 at
6:05 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Abuse, Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
OK. Here he/she is, ready to make a change, ready to be the person you want them to be. Should you take them back? Consider this. Are they the kind of person who thinks relationships are exciting because they get to do whatever they like with you and still be forgiven and loved? This comes […]
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Thursday, December 29th, 2022 at
7:28 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
NO, YOU CANNOT. You can get 96% there, and they’ll still hate you for the 4% you will never be. You won’t be happy; they won’t be happy. You may LOOK happy, but you won’t be. Neither one of you. This has never worked, and you aren’t the one-in-a-80-billion genius you need to be to […]
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Thursday, November 25th, 2021 at
11:42 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Cat Type Thinkers, Dog Type Thinker, Life Transitions, Personal, Thinker Type
As I describe the Cat Type Thinkers as the people who don’t wish to force change on anyone else, you might find it interesting to realize that it is a Cat Type Thinkers who will eventually force change. See, they like who they are, while the Dog Type Thinker think others like who they (the […]
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Thursday, September 9th, 2021 at
10:02 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Arguing, Breaking Patterns, Life Transitions
In case you don’t know, being right is not a competition in the sense that you can’t abandon your team if you’re losing a fight. You are PERFECTLY permitted to change sides if you find the opponent’s arguments more compelling – and you can bring your friends, too. The point of most arguing is not […]
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Sunday, February 23rd, 2020 at
3:45 am in Australia - Last edit on
February 6, 2024 Tags: Breaking Patterns, Ego, Life Transitions, Money and Business, Vos
Yes, I understand! The idea of a healthy false ego is a contradiction in terms! It’s similar to terms like consensual rape or giving a guilty plea while maintaining innocence. Yet, sometimes, contradictions can work as a beautiful combination of things that shouldn’t exist in the same room, like pink and green. Building a healthy […]
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