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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

So why are you not hitting on that handsome man/beautiful woman even though you’re not too shabby yourself?

Do you have imposter syndrome? You don’t love rock enough to hit on a rocker even though you could name 100 bands off the top of your head? You think you’re “a beginner” after 6 years of rock climbing and can’t talk to that girl who looks so hot in a harness and probably has […]

Vanity – physical fitness and good looks, living for sex.

When I tried to put my finger on why I was feeling very unhappy in life, I realized at the core of it all was the lack of great sex and, being married at the time, the realization I’d never have an opportunity to find it, if I stayed married. My then-husband is a great […]

Rebelliously kind, militantly nice, obstinately creating beauty into this world, and stubbornly refusing to turn toward ugly or settle for insufficient

Granted, you’ve got to break some eggs to make an omelet. It may become ugly at times, but you pick yourself up, you dust yourself off, apologize to yourself and those who you care for, and you try again. You’ll be better next time. More poised, more courteous, and more beautiful as a person. But […]

Obesity, traditional beauty, and the art of getting rejected

OK. This topic isn’t going to be easy. It’s about PERSONAL PREFERENCES and STANDARDS. First of all, KNOW THIS: Everyone, every single living thing is their own idea of perfection or the closest possible expression of it. No matter what bodyweight you are at, what color you dye your hair, or don’t, no matter how […]

How exceptionally attractive people mess up their relationship with their potential true loves.

Exceptionally attractive people are used to being approached and chased by others into relationships. In normal social situations, people tend to avoid them because they are intimidating to talk to and pose a threat to any existing relationships people have as they create jealousy and insecurity in others. However, when it comes to romances, they […]

Beauty dominates ugly – Strong dominates weak – smart equals devious.

The the Dog Thinkerbrain still works quite in the automatic belief that beautiful women dominate the ugly, and strong men dominate the weak. If you’re neither a strong man nor a beautiful woman, you better be good at plotting evil plans. The way the Dog Thinker”losers” win is by playing dirty. The Cat Thinkers are […]

Good looks and love – how much do your looks count for?

It is popular to think that looks don’t matter in a relationship (nor does IQ, either, according to the same people) and that the only thing that matters is your ability to love. People who don’t think looks matter in a relationship often feel that love is an action, something you do for other people, […]

What is your secret to success, beauty, and general excellence?

There are a lot of people who expect “advanced” people to teach them everything they know… In a hurry. There are tons and tons of people who believe they’ve simply missed that one small thing, some single thing that will make them super smart, super enlightened, super popular, and totally sexy in a flash. That […]

You’d relax a lot if you knew how little other unusually sexy people judge you for your feelings

I know the headline makes very little sense at first. I’ll have to explain a bit. Beautiful people, men, and women alike, feel continually judged for wanting to reserve their monogamous romantic love for another equally attractive person. If you can only have one, and you’re a full ten, you rightly assume that you have […]

Physical beauty is a mental value: You cannot truly fall for a person who feels differently about beauty

It is a myth that true love doesn’t have anything to do with good looks. It does, and a lot. However, it is more a mental thing than a physical thing. A person who values beauty, but who has lost their beauty… let’s say, in a fire, is still mentally aligned with a person who […]

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