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Messages from Sebastyne as chosen by the Universe.

“I offer you a chance to love me.” (Find your charisma.)

You may think that you owe a person a relationship if you approach them for whatever reason. You might think you owe it to them to know before you know them, that you’ll love them forever, and that, definitely, you know you’re lovable as. You might have a thousand reasons why you’re cautious about approaching […]

“I am the good person because I love them. They are the villain because they no longer love” is bullshit.

If you ever need to know whose side to a story is more likely true, always compare who wants out and who wants the relationship to continue. We have gotten the love-loved one virtue order wrong. Think of the people who you love the most. Do you think you deserve a pat on the back […]

When you’re in love with the wrong person you want them to be “less something” so you could work as a couple.

Men are well known for having relationships with women for entertainment purposes – for casual sex and even just company, while looking for the right woman to marry… Or trying to figure things out with her. Women and girls, especially, are no exception. We also have “comparatively best friends” out of the ones currently available […]

Do you have to be rich to gain the love of your True Emotion Mirror?

Your True Emotion Mirror is not going to care whether you’re rich or poor. They are your perfect counterpart, and your lowest of low is not any lower than theirs can be. I just wrote a bit about poop fetishists, so let’s keep to that topic; if you are a poop fetishist, so is your […]

“You don’t trust me!” Is unconditional trust a sign of true love?

Unconditional trust is not a universally good sign in a relationship. How many times have you trusted someone from day one, who, in a short time, turns out to be an abusive narcissist? Your trust in a person is NOT a signal of YOUR issues, it’s a signal of THEIR trust in themselves. If they […]

Why you’ll find love only after you stop looking for it?

Your True Emotion Mirror doesn’t think he or she is good enough for you. Your ideals are identical, and psychologically, we always believe we’re a little less perfect than our perfect counterpart is. True Emotion Mirrors are connected in spirit. Once you drop your wishes for perfect love, that’s when your True Emotion Mirror dares […]

What’s the difference between a literal obsession and being in love?

The difference between a literal obsession with another person and being in love with someone is basically how THEY feel about you. Someone who is obsessed will not CARE how their subject feels about their love, but keeps on pursuing them despite being rejected over and over. Being in love with someone is different – […]

You can’t find love – love will find you.

HOW MANY TIMES have I heard that? And it took me to 50 years of age to finally agree that it is true. You can find your lovers in spirit, is an interesting thing, but you can’t get there until you… Relax, maybe? Give up? Stop caring… About yourself, that is, or the outcome. Once […]

At the end of the day, do as you do, love as you love.

I’ve spent 15 years 24/7 of daily spirit conversations on top of all of my other lifetimes trying to figure out how life works. How relationships work. I’m good at them, don’t get me wrong, in some sense, even if there are things I still needed to learn the hard way. My main lesson: “Speak […]

Not all people play games even when in love.

This might come as a surprise to some of you, but not all people play games EVEN when they’re in love. They say what they mean, they mean what they say, and don’t give you a run around just for the sake of giving you a run around. They are just as open and honest […]

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