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Monday, April 21st, 2025 at
4:24 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 21, 2025 Tags: love
HOW MANY TIMES have I heard that? And it took me to 50 years of age to finally agree that it is true. You can find your lovers in spirit, is an interesting thing, but you can’t get there until you… Relax, maybe? Give up? Stop caring… About yourself, that is, or the outcome. Once […]
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Sunday, April 13th, 2025 at
10:15 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 13, 2025 Tags: love
I’ve spent 15 years 24/7 of daily spirit conversations on top of all of my other lifetimes trying to figure out how life works. How relationships work. I’m good at them, don’t get me wrong, in some sense, even if there are things I still needed to learn the hard way. My main lesson: “Speak […]
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Sunday, April 6th, 2025 at
10:44 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 6, 2025 Tags: love
This might come as a surprise to some of you, but not all people play games EVEN when they’re in love. They say what they mean, they mean what they say, and don’t give you a run around just for the sake of giving you a run around. They are just as open and honest […]
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Wednesday, April 2nd, 2025 at
2:15 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 2, 2025 Tags: love, warnings
While the Cat Type Thinking trauma is effectively being too loved or needed (because they’ve figured this out already), the Dog Type Thinking trauma is the lack of realization that they don’t need to be loved or even liked to have the right to exist (after being born). Anyone can be the biggest ahole in […]
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Thursday, March 20th, 2025 at
12:45 pm in Australia - Last edit on
March 20, 2025 Tags: love, warnings
Swans* believe that love has to be returned. You love someone, they’re obligated to love you back. Therefore, if they love you, they may not tell you they love you because they don’t want to put you on a spot. They may tell you anything except how they feel. Still, here’s one clue that […]
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Thursday, March 20th, 2025 at
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April 5, 2025 Tags: love, Narcissism, warnings
If someone’s interest in you suddenly went cold… Check your messages. How many times have not answered a message because it wasn’t important? EVERY MESSAGE from your lover is important, asshole. If you imply to someone that you don’t want to hear from them, guess what they’re going to do, especially if they thought you […]
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Wednesday, March 12th, 2025 at
9:28 pm in Australia - Last edit on
March 12, 2025 Tags: love
Do you think your partner or friend is playing hard ball in the game of ‘dare’ with a true lover/friend? Whatever they say can be in the form of a joke or a dare and a razz between best friends, but you have to listen to the giggle sound. NOBODY, and I mean NOBODY without […]
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Wednesday, March 12th, 2025 at
8:30 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: love, Narcissism
If you haven’t experienced this, you’ll think I’ve gone crazy. I would have said the same not that long ago. You know you’re in love (even platonically) when you feel that stuff you’d normally never do to a partner or a friend is somewhat funny. Things that are downright abusive now just feel sexy or […]
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Sunday, February 23rd, 2025 at
11:28 pm in Australia - Last edit on
February 24, 2025 Tags: love
Sounds romantic, doesn’t it? Now. Here’s the harsh reality. EVERYBODY in this world has love to give. You are no different from any other person who is a living, breathing individual, animals included, you’ve got love to give and so does everybody else. The question is what triggers that love? The answer, more often than […]
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Monday, February 17th, 2025 at
2:03 am in Australia - Last edit on
February 17, 2025 Tags: Authenticity, love, shame and guilt
Platonically or sexually. Do not let people shame you off your authentic self. I know it’s hard to fight the urge to be acceptable but inauthentic. To hide your true self because you think people will hate you for the real you – or consider it their sole right to be what you want to […]
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