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How to snare your True Emotion Mirror; Sex, food, and good advice.

You’re going to die (laughing) when you get it. We’ve created all this complication around bagging a bloke. đŸ˜€ All it takes is sex, food, and good advice. This sounds so stupid—or what I’ve thought it needs sounds stupid—I don’t know which. Love confessions will backfire almost 100%, no matter how much you want to […]

Is it right to feel sex would be a factor in a relationship based on true romantic love?

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why sex would go away from a relationship between two physically healthy people who are in love IF they are sexual in the first place. There are people who are asexual, and there’s nothing to change that, but they shouldn’t be in relationships with sexual people. Asexual people are […]

What are reasonable expectations in a relationship? How much attention? Sex? Together-time?

The purpose of a relationship is to make you feel loved, wanted, cared for, happy, and fulfilled. If those things are not there, the relationship does not fulfill its purpose. What is reasonable is not the question. The question is: is what you are getting enough for you? Another question may be: Is what you […]

As a strategy, refusing sex from a guy is a terrible one.

Mind you, I’m saying STRATEGY. This is the keyword here: strategy to bag the bloke. I don’t mean you should sleep with every guy who wants to sleep with you at once; I’m saying being calculative about who you sleep with is a terrible strategy. Sex should happen when you both want it. Sex should […]

Bad sex is had to impress/please a third party

People have bad sex all the time. The purpose of it is to “be right” by someone else’s standards. To impress somebody, like the genuine target of their sexual attraction, that may not be gender compatible. For example, a closet lesbian woman may try to impress a straight woman she has a crush on by […]

Yes. Some of us really like sex.

It may come as a shock to you that the love of sex isn’t a gender thing. Some of us women do love sex, and we want a sexual relationship that lasts a lifetime. The ultimate dream may be to find someone you feel sexually attracted to from the start and to whom that attraction […]

Always protect and serve your own sexuality.

Two things in this world will make you depressed with absolute certainty: Deciding to stick to realistic goals and deciding to suffocate your own sexuality at the altar of appropriateness. Just reading that sentence makes me want to shoot a bullet through my own head. Nothing has killed MY will to live more effectively than […]

Why high IQ and high sex drive might be linked.

If you see this post, it is shown to you to offer you something to study. I am not an expert, this is a suggestion to you: It seems to me that the higher a person’s IQ, the “kinkier” and the more sexually driven they are. I personally do not know a genius, male or […]

Love and Tragedy, Sex and Murder – why you need to watch who you’re friends with.

This is going to be profoundly disturbing for True Emotion Mirrors. There are people who automatically link sex to murder and love to a tragic death in their minds like there is no other alternative. Without the tragic death of one or the other lover, these people believe the love will eventually turn stale. They […]

Men want relationships, too… And women want sex.

Here’s a kicker for a lot of you… Men want relationships and women want sex. The question is, do they want it with you? Everybody wants a relationship with someone who they find romantically and sexually attractive. Otherwise, it makes no sense to be in a relationship. The trouble here is that people who are […]

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