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When your identity was based on being the lover of a Reverse Mirror.

It can feel like the world as you knew it sifts underneath your feet when you discover the person you thought you were born to love is actually everything except what you thought they were. The Angel turned out to be an evil witch… The “bad boy” turned out to be a boring truth-teller and […]

What do you demand from NICE people cannot be the same you demand from YOUR LOVER

OK, I’ll give tell you the story that prompted the post, although it’s a bit weird. I spend time on Second Life, which is a virtual world. I met someone who I have 2 things in common: We both prefer 1:1 scale on Second Life, we wear similar style mesh avatars, and we’re both heterosexual. […]

Why is it important to a M8R10 know how to be alone (without friends or love relationships)?

Short and sweet: If you’re a catch, and others agree, they’ll want to… well, catch you. If you’re dependent on having SOMEONE, you won’t stay alone/single for long enough to even FIND someone worthy of you, let alone making it official. (Polyamory might be a good idea.)

What is the difference between a true friend (precious soulmate) and a true lover (true emotion mirror)

The difference between a true friend (a Precious Soulmate) and a true lover (True EMotion Mirror) is quite simple, in common terms: With one, you have no real sexual connection to speak of, and if it exists, you both mutually agree it’s better off the menu. With the other, you have mind-blowing sexual chemistry on […]

You might not recognize your true lover in photos

There is a reason why you might not recognize your true lover in photos of them. Or, you might not like the way they’re behaving in videos with other people. This is because every true lover is DIFFERENT around their counterpart. People in love look at their true loves with a different expression on their […]

It is high time people will stop associating the term “female sexuality” as a form of lesbianism (alone)

It is astonishing how the idea that women are not very sexual or that women will only be turned on by cuddles and commitment persists in the minds of all people… Apart from hetero- and physiosexual women. There are many reasons why women who ARE turned on by men (not ALL men, obviously) hide the […]

Romantic relationships with no sex involved – is that supposed to be enough?

In the following, I am in no way suggesting that people should always do relationships the same way. Not at all. Everyone who has listened to me for five seconds should know this. However, what people seem to insist on having the right to do is to dictate the rules of the relationship THEY WANT […]

Why am I so sex-obsessed as a “spiritual” teacher?

I understand that what I write can be seen as being sex-obsessed and sex-focussed. The original reason for putting that focus in was that when it came to spiritual love, a lot of people assumed sex would not be a part of a spiritual love relationship. The reason why so many women, especially, thinks that’s […]

Dom Pro-tips: How to force sex without forcing anyone.

There’s the matter of consent, first of all. You need consent, right, but asking for it can be such a massive turn off for both of you. It’s like starting a first date romantic dinner by signing a prenuptial agreement. Not hot. Still, you need consent. Pro-tip #1 Phrase your question: “If you don’t want […]

What Your Most Intense Soulmates Can Do to Your Sexuality

Love is a wonderful thing. When it hits and you “go completely faggot” over someone as a friend of mine laughed. “I can’t even use another word, I went faggot for him, completely!” The funniest thing that had ever happened to him, a straight guy who met the childhood love of his True Emotion Mirror, […]

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