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The Real Life True Emotion Mirror sex, as in TrEmoR Sex

I will jump right onto a topic request from Anna, because this is one of those posts that I would love to talk about, and still hate the thought of. 😀 The reason being, that I have very limited physical experience of this myself, and my knowledge is based on spirit contacts and a few […]

Adults who feel pressured to have sex by cultural expectations

You may have heard of adult babies and asexuals, but you might have missed the group of people who are really neither, whose interest in sex is so low that they do not even wish to give themselves a label to explain their disinterest, but who feel like it is abnormal to want sex so much and feel pressured into a sexual template when they form relationships…

The Power of Pestering People for Sex, Love, or Friendship Until They Give In

Ever met someone who pesters people for love and sex or friendship? The kind of people who will say anything it takes to land a good deal on any of those fronts? And again, don’t get alarmed. I, too, love the kind of humorous begging, the kind that accepts no for an answer, if not […]

Online dating will involve a healthy amount of talk about sex. It should.

I love online dating. I love it mainly because of the incredible amount of good stuff that comes into your inbox. I love the conversations about relationships, sex, and sexuality, all those topics that normally wouldn’t happen, but on a dating site is a natural thing to discuss, even if only on a theoretical level. […]

Why do some people (the Normal Person*) fear sex?

Remember that for the Normal Person*, everything is a social or a communal thing. Sex is no different. The Normal Person* have an interesting fear of intimacy. They fear everything one-on-one, because that, to them, feels like they have been ousted from the security of the group. When separated from the group, they feel they […]

Flirt Chicken played the Lover-thinking* way and the Savants* thinking way

the Normal Person* and the Savants* flirt slightly differently. Even when they play Flirt Chicken – I just made that up, tell me if there’s an actual term for this – a game with the purpose of challenging the other to a game of flirt, they go about it slightly differently. The Savants* […]

What your primary alliances say about your sexuality?

When we go into relationships, people can have very different expectations from those relationships. To some it is clear that your friends are the most important relationship in your life, some consider it to be the family, and some take it for given that if you are in a romantic/sexual relationship with someone, that should be […]

Relationship guide for those who are not really interested in sex

I have noticed that two groups are constantly at odds with each other when it comes to relationships. The sexual and the asexual. (Asexual meaning a person with little or no sexual interest towards other people.) Relationships, to an asexual, can be annoying, as people associate all romantic relationship types (mono or poly) with sex. […]

Why I, a sex-obsessed female, want a dress code

A dress code should not be needed. It SHOULD NOT, but it is. People dress up in certain ways to convey a message, and the less we have codes, the harder it is to express oneself through a coded message in a dress. Back in the victorian times, a naughty girl could get a man aroused by showing him her angle. Now, a girl with no intent of having sexual relations with anyone can walk around half naked with no fear of sexual attention. That’s simply BORING.

Women blog about sex all the time, but what about sex blogs by men?

You won’t find it difficult to find sex blogs written by women with one simple Google search, but to find a personal sex blog by a man… That is a trick and a half. Men cannot say certain things out loud, and I really wish someone did. I am personally gagging for them, so if you could help me out and send me links, please.

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