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The rejection and denial of casual sex between True Emotion Mirrors

I can say I am always GOBSMACKED to hear reactions such as that from men. Women, I understand… From my perspective, but they probably don’t mean what I suppose they mean, initially. Coming from a very sexually liberated country, all sexual oppression and judging people for the number of partners they’ve had or something similar […]

Your sexuality: “I freeze around the person I want” – what to do?

Do you find yourself freezing near the person that you want to attract? Like you would render back to the level of a 12-year old, not knowing what to do or say next, afraid to say the wrong thing? Yeah, I know what you’re going through. Your sexuality is blocked out from view because you feel […]

The development of our natural sexuality through several lifetimes

The irony is, that separating boys from girls at an early age, and then confining them into lonely and scary places like boy schools and girl schools is a perfect breeding ground for homosexual connections. People feel sexual where they are safe, and if their girlfriend or their boyfriend makes them feel safe in a […]

Discovering your authentic sexuality; Away with sexual repression

Sexual repression first starts with someone’s overactive sexual imagination that is transferred into a societal belief that this is how all people think. Then, we start observing ourselves and editing our true sexual feelings into more approved forms.

The oppression on male sexuality by female sex coalition

There is more than one way the male sexuality is being oppressed in our societies these days, but this comes in the form of having women essentially silently agree on what is OK for another woman to agree to in bed and what is not that creates oppression on male sexuality. Interestingly enough, this, of […]

“Just sex” and how do we know it for what it is

“Anyone who has ever tried ‘just sex’ knows it’s nothing exciting. However, whether it’s just sex or something amazing cannot be measured by a number of dates or years of marriage. Sometimes there’s more true passion in one kiss or one dance that leads nowhere than there is in an entire 50 year marriage. 50 […]

How do you thank/forgive someone who meant well (by driving away your lover)?

I must say I’m lost with this one. How do you forgive interference in your love affairs by people who mean well but have no idea of what they are doing. Will you help me figure this one out if you can? Maybe I myself am still blinded by sheer wrath.

What can I learn about my love relationships by studying the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology?

True love is the stuff your mother warned you about: To never trust your lust, to avoid people you feel drawn to and be mistrustful of anything and anyone that seems like something you wanted and could have.

Societal shame of sex directly creates sexual abuse victims

To sexually spoil someone, you need to have something to spoil; sexual purity and disinterest in sex. To create a sexual trauma, we first must agree that there is something wrong with sexual intercourse happening in certain circumstances, without an exception. It’s the without an exception part that worries me.

Development of soulmate sexuality through life times: incl. Demonic Phase

There are some fantastic discoveries I have to share with you – a fantastic Christmas! All of my discoveries relate to soulmate sexuality, but also, love and hate and the age of our souls. This should make interesting reading! When our souls are young, infant, in fact, many of our ways are infantile regardless of […]

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