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True love ignites at first sight, false love by getting attention.

You won’t believe it until it happens – you’ll feel reassured if it already has: true love ignites at first sight, but false love ignites through attention received. Both need attention shown to go somewhere. If your goal is to “just find someone,” this post is not really relevant to you at all, but if […]

Wealth allows you to have the friends you love rather than friends who love you.

Think of it this way. When you’re poor, you kinda have to settle for people who love you, even if you didn’t love them that much yourself. They’re there for you, putting up with your poverty; you can never go anywhere, do anything, have fun, but they put up with you, so you go along […]

Suffering for love – or for the lack thereof.

People who feel deep sadness for not being loved feel a certain entitlement to another person’s feelings. By demonstrating suffering to you (even telepathically) they want you to know you’re doing wrong by them and need to love them more. However, people who don’t suffer for love, also don’t feel like they are entitled to […]

the Savants* love probing personal questions (directed at themselves and to ask them) but the Normal Person* have told them a thousand times not to ask any.

the Normal Person* don’t like people getting personal – not even on a date. They have a phobia of not being liked, and means they don’t want to answer questions that they think has a wrong answer to. It is true, in a sense, that even personal questions have wrong answers. They qualify you as […]

Your generosity has been mistaken for actual personal love.

You may have an issue. Do you tend to give away your time, work, or money to people you don’t genuinely love? People you may like but also pity a little? Everyone? Do you feel obligated to “give back” when nobody has really given much to you, specifically? Do you feel short-changed a lot? Maybe […]

Definition of “true love” and your personal bar

People interpret the expression of true love differently. First of all, people who don’t feel much loved at all think people who are looking for true love are looking for someone to love them. Unconditionally, I might add. In contrast, people who feel they are much loved and quite popular are looking for someone they, […]

Your True Emotion Mirror may say the most insulting things while meaning them to express love.

When someone loves everything about you, they may not realize that… You don’t love everything about yourself. They don’t realize that to yourself, you are the most mundane and also the most frustrating person in the world. They may not realize that you don’t wake up every morning thinking, “Oh my god, I am a […]

People love being loved and admired, sure, but not nearly as much as they love being entertained.

If you think you’ve got everything covered by simply admiring and loving others, you’ve got it wrong. While being loved and admired is nice, it’s not nearly as nice as being entertained. We love having good-humored, funny people around who have ideas for fun up in their sleeves. People who are always ready and willing […]

The fear of losing the feeling of love and desire.

There is a soulmate type that I’ve named the Vaporizing Lust Mirror, which is effectively not a soulmate of great significance but rather a Trail Companion* that you have a fleeting, temporary sexual and/or romantic attraction toward. However, that attraction vanishes very soon after you get to act on it. It is based on the […]

A spirit tells you that you’re in love with somebody you’ve never met… Uh?

The bottom line will be this: You can never decide on another person’s behalf who they love. Love is a feeling, and no matter how much you think someone should feel it for another person, tough luck – not your call. This applies to spirit-driven connections, too. If someone tells you, in spirit, that they […]

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