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Of course there is a BOND between you and your soulmates, doesn’t make it a sign of true love.

There are some of you who feel a bond with someone and take that to mean they’re True Emotion Mirrors. A bond exists between ALL TYPES of soulmates; otherwise, they wouldn’t BE soulmates. You can safely switch “soulmate” to “someone I have a bond with” without any loss of meaning. Some bonds are felt stronger […]

You cannot make a person love you by making them happy.

You cannot make a person fall in love with you by making them happy because you cannot make them happy if they don’t love you. It is a self-defeating endeavor. You can only BE a person another person loves or you’re not. If they love you, you make them happy by simply existing where they’re […]

Misery loves company and opportunists love misery.

There is an old saying, “Misery loves company.” It should continue: “… and opportunists love your misery.” This is when weasels come into your life. This is when horrible people who cannot connect with another person in any other way but to “console you” when you’re miserable come to “be your friend.” People who you […]

Don’t ask for more than what your love is worth.

Being loved is great, but you know what love also is? It’s very freaking expensive when it comes from a selfish person. “I love you; therefore, you owe me,” sort of way. So instead of feeling good, there is a point where these expressions of overwhelming adoration don’t raise gratitude anymore, but a question: “OK, […]

Your true friends and lovers love your ideal future vision of yourself… Not necessarily what you are now.

What you want and wish to be is, in some sense, more important about you than what you currently are. Obviously, you cannot just narcissistically make yourself believe you already are what you wish you were in the future and skip the work involved to get there, but what you wish you were, ultimately, is […]

It’ll hurt a lot less if you stop expecting non-Americans to love everything American as much as Americans do.

Don’t get me wrong. Without a doubt, USA is the world’s favorite country, and at the moment, followed closely by Ukraine. We love a lot of the things that are profoundly American; we incorporate America into our everyday lives, gladly, willingly, with adoration of your beautiful nation. That said, we don’t love everything about it. […]

Signs you don’t know what love is.

When they don’t feel excited about the prospect of being with you, you blame them for a flaw instead of considering it may be you or that you are just not compatible. You feel the need to hang onto whatever attention a member of your preferred gender has given you (at any age before). You […]

Don’t let your ego talk you into the wrong relationships when looking for true love.

If you are consciously looking for your True Emotion Mirror, you will likely start interpreting mild True Emotion Mirror signs for real ones. It’s also true with just a regular “the right one” concept; you want to find it so bad that you’ll start seeing things. Still, you know you don’t like this thing about […]

True Emotion Mirrors, Authenticity, and Unconditional Love

True Emotion Mirrors are, to each other, people who, in their authentic state, are everything they love about other people. Once a person truly liberates oneself from social norms and expectations, they are exactly what their counterpart will love. Mind you, a person may have to try and control their thrive for perfectionism to fit […]

Love Life Basics

Elsewhere, I speak a lot about True Emotion Mirrors. This category has nothing to do with that fancy stuff; this is simply getting you from feeling like the biggest dating dummy up to speed, right? Just where other adults are at. This is not a master class, this is the dating basics. I am not […]

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