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Why you shouldn’t play “hard to get” if you want true love, even if…

They say rubbish like “Treat them mean, keep them keen,” “Don’t appear too eager,” and “Why would he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free?” All of those sayings are absolute fucking GUNK when it comes to finding true love. They’re based on a narcissistic view of relationships, so your value […]

To love well, you need to be fair and just.

Often, we say that a person who lacks love “deserves” love over those who are easier to love. I am not sure the correct verb is used in that sentiment. I believe people who lack love need love, but I am not entirely convinced they DESERVE love. Being lovable consists of very easily predictable traits, […]

Stop taking love so seriously!

I could have used this reminder back when I met my first obvious True Emotion Mirror! Love is not that serious. It can last a lifetime, you can count on it, you can trust in it, but… It’s not serious. It’s a joy. It’s there for FUN and GAMES, it’s life-giving, beautiful, and the play […]

Can you love someone without being aware of it?

There is a highly disturbing belief in the Twin Flame circles, that suggests that a “runner” maybe in love with the “chaser” without being aware of their emotions. That is a highly manipulative and a toxic idea to give to people. SURE, perhaps it maybe true in some sense, but if you ask that person: […]

He/She may not be looking for the same kind of “true love” as you are.

Don’t get me wrong; if you’ve found your True Emotion Mirror, even if you’re on different pages right now, it doesn’t mean you’re not in the same book or belong together in the last chapter. However, it is also entirely possible that you are thinking a side character in that book is your main character […]

Do you feel ridiculous because you want love or sex so much?

It is ridiculous, you know that, to feel ridiculous for wanting love or thinking you’d be hot enough for someone to want to have sex with you? You know it, logically, that you’re quite good enough, but yet, you can’t quite convince your mind it is ridiculous to feel ridiculous, and then you feel a […]

Never silence people you love, even if they’re saying things you don’t love hearing.

This is the tricky bit about love: it has to be real. And the one way to force yourself into fake relationships is to NOT LISTEN to your partner, friends, or family members. The fact is that A LOT OF RELATIONSHIPS function on the power of not listening to each other. You stop talking, or […]

How do you appreciate true love if that’s all you’ve ever known?

At 17, I wrote in my diary: “What would be so special about true love if it was easy to find.” That was the thought of a young woman who hadn’t found true love yet. The inexperience of it. The answer is “everything!” Everything is special about true love, and the difficulty of finding it […]

Can love cure someone?

YES. Absolutely. However, if the love is unwanted, it can make things a thousand times worse. There are two ways to love; the Savants* and the dog-type. You can’t cure the Savants* with the Normal Person*love and vice versa. You can make a Savants* worse by forcing the Normal Person*love on them, […]

Just because someone doesn’t love you, doesn’t mean they hate you.

This is something not all people understand: there are emotions between love and hate. Shades. If someone breaks up with you simply because they don’t love you, it doesn’t mean they intend to turn into your enemy. They just don’t love you enough for what your relationship needs for them to love you, whether it […]

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