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If you want to find true love, you have to stop trying to fall in love.

Look. Mostly, people are a bit… Rubbish. You know? I’m stating it too strongly. People are awesome, but not when you TRY and fall in love with one of them. You’ll give too many chances. You brainwash yourself into being in love. You’ll lie to yourself about the virtues of your partner, their intent, their […]

How do you overcome the fear of confessing your love to someone?

First of all, never underestimate the right timing. Sometimes, when we are with our True Emotion Mirror especially, we feel the need to rush things like mad. It is natural to feel like this may not be the right time to say things – let it be until the right time comes; it is not […]

Someone I love lets their parent abuse them – even now that they’re an adult. What do I do?

People get judged for not getting on with their parents, don’t they? Your loved one may try too hard to not be an argumentative pissy little teenager, even though they’re an adult and deserve respect. Their relationship with their parents isn’t a great one, for one reason or another, and it should have been their […]

My partner/friend doesn’t want to take care of their parents – should I even love a person like that?!

Let me start this way: No child who has a good relationship with their parent will leave them for dead. The relationship doesn’t have to be GREAT for this, it doesn’t really even have to be GOOD, most people will stick around even if their relationship was merely tolerable. Therefore, if someone is ready and […]

the Survivalist* thinks love means “taking care of someone”

the Survivalist* and the Idealists* think love means vastly different things. Whichever way a Idealists* tries to explain to the Survivalist*what love is, they always somehow link it to “being taken care of.” the Idealists*: “Love is a joy of another person’s existence.” the Survivalist* fills the sentence: “…because […]

Don’t try to love everything about everybody you know.

You know what makes it really difficult for people to get along? If you try too hard to love EVERYTHING about another person… You can’t. You can ONLY do that with your True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates, and even then, there will probably be some issues here and there. None of us is perfect, […]

You may need to compete over your True Emotion Mirror’s… love.

If you pulled up this post, you may need to start competing over your True Emotion Mirror’s love. They have a lot of takers, and you are now fighting your ego; you don’t want to be one of their… “fangirls” or “fanboys.” Still, you’re going to have to do something for them to realize you’re […]

Don’t assume Libertines* know you love them.

Self-confidence doesn’t come from the fact that this person knows they are loved; it comes from knowing they’ll survive even if nobody did. They know love is not a measure of how good of a person you are, it’s a measure of personal taste. They don’t take it as an offense if someone doesn’t love […]

Stop interpreting people so you can love them or hate them as you choose.

If you pulled this post up, you may have a bit of a habit of deliberately interpreting people either toward the negative or the positive so you can feel a predetermined feeling for them. They are but an actor in a play of your life, and you’re the director, for as long as that person […]

Unrequited love – how can you love so much more than the person you’re in love with?

You’d like to see yourself as someone who that person is in love with, but they do not like to be the kind of person who would be in love with you… In other words, your self-confidence improves when you look at yourself through that person; like someone who’d date that person. You like yourself […]

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