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Is this a pretence of romance or actual love?

When people want a romantic relationship, they often must avoid certain discussion topics and find someone who will agree to shut up and slow dance with them. The whole affair will be based on not saying anything potentially controversial during the night or “you’ll ruin it.” Kinda like my mom and me at all times, […]

Even the most irritating people maybe just trying to tell you they love you.

This is something of an FYI post. This does not mean that you’d necessarily be all excited about the idea these people love you, but it may help you to get rid of them if you need to. There are people who express their love with hate and criticism. It’s kind of like loving you […]

People don’t want their problems solved: They love their misery.

Don’t worry about it. Quit the guilt. More than anything, people with problems just want you to be the scapegoat so they can keep having their issues. You’re the excuse, not the reason. Do you remember when the young soccer players, Wild Boars, got stuck in the flooded cave in Thailand? Do you remember Elon […]

Good looks and love – how much do your looks count for?

It is popular to think that looks don’t matter in a relationship (nor does IQ, either, according to the same people) and that the only thing that matters is your ability to love. People who don’t think looks matter in a relationship often feel that love is an action, something you do for other people, […]

If you have to trust them to love you out of their good nature; not a True Emotion Mirror.

Sometimes, we trust another person to love us, not because they LOVE us, but because they’re such a good-natured person that they would never leave us or do the wrong thing by us. You know that the reason why you’re together is that they are a nice, good person, and you love and admire them […]

Ego-love vs. brain love

When we feel love, we can feel it in different parts of our bodies. We all know heart-love, it is a love of compassion and “like,” a common type of love. We can also love from the eyes, which is an ambition-based love, a greedy feeling of potentially having someone who doesn’t really belong to […]

You can not be so f*** up that your True Emotion Mirror won’t love you.

This is the core truth of a True Emotion Mirror. You may be broke, insane, selfish, narcissistic, anti-social, and standing on top of a pile of bodies you’ve just finished slaughtering in a mad rage for no other reason than for fun alone. Not to mention you’re still sweating and stinky from creating the carnage. […]

If I love somebody, does that mean they are a True Emotion Mirror?

If you’re wondering if it is enough of a sign that YOU love someone, that they are your True Emotion Mirror, the answer is that, sadly, life isn’t that simple. Everyone loves many people who are not their True Emotion Mirror or even their Precious Soulmate. Therefore, it is obvious that the True Emotion Mirror […]

Not “true love”: Pity, compassion, and understanding each other’s loneliness

Everybody defines “true love” differently, but what is definitely not the definition of “true love” for those who seek it is pity, compassion, and understanding of each other’s loneliness. However, this combination of feelings is what most “normal” love relationships are based on. It is simply love for the virtue of being equally pathetic. To […]

The one in love won’t feel the lack of love in a relationship and the one not in love won’t feel “loved”.

Let’s bust a major myth here. I’ve made a few attempts at this before, but one more time. When one partner is in love with the other, but the other one is not, usually we feel the one who is loved is the lucky one. The truth is the opposite. To love is to feel […]

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