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I accept everybody – unconditionally, without a question. But that is not love.

I may have to make this post personal just to save my own skin in some sense. I am someone who takes it for granted that everybody has the right to be who they authentically are, unconditionally. My entire theory here is based on the acceptance of everybody’s right to be who they are, without […]

How do you know you’re fooling yourself that someone (special) is in love with you?

If you love that person, you will read this entire page without skipping one line. Alright? Don’t be in a hurry now, this is a tiny, small test of your love and devotion to that person. You OWE reading this page as a favor to the one you (claim to) love. Obviously, if you’re on […]

Is he or she “good enough” for you is an entirely wrong question in love

Everybody deserves love, right? You start drilling down to it, you’ll find everybody deserves love. Or nobody does, whichever way you want to see it. If you start rejecting people based on “deserve”, you’ll have a hard time doing it. The question is entirely wrong. It also makes you a target of people who think […]

“What is good enough” is not the right question in love

“What is the very best I can give?” is.

What are True Emotion Mirrors (aka. Twin Flames) and what does they have to do with your love life?

A True Emotion Mirror is a concept of a perfect romantic match for any given person (sometimes called ‘a Twin Flame’, although the terms are not directly interchangeable). Always either a pair of two or a group of several people, NEVER an individual alone. (In other words, you can’t be a True Emotion Mirror or […]

Signs of covert abuse you might have taken for love or friendship

I want you to understand, first, that I totally believe in true love and eternal bliss. I believe in love at first sight, and I believe relationships can be truly beautiful, even when so attached and so bonded, that NOTHING WILL EVER break you two apart. Truthfully, I believe that some amazing relationships freak out […]

When a person doesn’t welcome your love…

Now… You might be thinking of someone who has been kind to you, helpful, even charitable, but won’t allow you to do anything for them. Or, perhaps you know someone who is a nice person, but won’t respond to any offers of friendship or help. What is happening? To put it simply: You are being […]

Why people looking for true love are NEAR IMPOSSIBLE to coax into making a commitment?

There is an interesting interaction between people who believe in true love (or True Emotion Mirror love) and those who believe in… Marriage. The people who think marriage = true love won’t understand why people looking for true love are nearly impossible to coax into making a commitment to a serious relationship. What they don’t […]

the Survivalist* falls in love with AN OPPORTUNITY to bond

It is incredibly difficult for a Idealists* to understand what drives the Survivalist* into a relationship with someone. An the Idealists* can state clearly what kind of qualities they appreciate in another person, and what are the traits they avoid and despise in others. Now, the Survivalist* is loyal to their […]

How the Survivalist* and the Idealists* shame each other (while trying to show love or respect)

the Survivalist* function largely on the feeling of love. The Idealists* are far more interested in earning people’s respect. The Survivalist* are very much like small children after attention, where as the Idealists* act like young adults trying to prove their capability in this world. The Idealists* have the capacity […]

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