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Sunday, August 1st, 2021 at
12:49 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Emotional Boundaries, Healthy Masculinity, love, Idealists*, Respect, Self-Worth, shame and guilt, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
the Survivalist* function largely on the feeling of love. The Idealists* are far more interested in earning people’s respect. The Survivalist* are very much like small children after attention, where as the Idealists* act like young adults trying to prove their capability in this world. The Idealists* have the capacity […]
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Sunday, June 27th, 2021 at
3:03 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Authenticity, love, Soulmate, True Love
I just kind of woke up to having an issue with being pampered and my True Emotion Mirror having an issue with not being able to pamper me. After a longish conversation in spirit about the matter, I started laughing about having relationship issues with THAT GUY, and another one, who is also the kind […]
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Tuesday, June 1st, 2021 at
2:23 pm in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: love
In the very heart of the True Emotion Mirror -description is the requirement of 100% authenticity. You have to be completely you in order to be completely loved by your True Emotion Mirror. Of course, a morsel of love from your TrEmor is enough to feed you for a lifetime, sometimes even if you think […]
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Monday, April 19th, 2021 at
11:55 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Abuse, love
Now, first, Disobedience is not what the Idealists* are about, even though the Survivalist* are about obedience. It’s just that the Idealists* don’t necessarily obey if they feel what is requested of them is undue, unfair, over-the-top, unnecessary, unlawful, or otherwise morally questionable. They don’t disobey for the sake of disobedience in […]
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Friday, April 2nd, 2021 at
8:31 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: love, warnings
This post is for the Survivalist* thinker type, although the Idealists* can always struggle with this question, just that their answer is entirely different. When people are children, they get love bestowed upon them automatically, everywhere they go (mostly). Everybody is nice to a child, everyone tells you you’re cute or precious, you’re […]
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Monday, March 29th, 2021 at
4:14 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: Abuse, love
The Survivalist* have one bad trait above others. The Idealists* have their own, but this is the Survivalist*’s failure: They think love justifies abusive behavior. The logic here goes, that “but I love you”, as in “but you know I love you, therefore, why do you care if I beat you up/verbally […]
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Tuesday, February 23rd, 2021 at
12:57 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: love
Actual love is always a gift given to a person who brings you joy simply by being the person they are. Some people are so amazing, that they give people joy by basically just turning up, and we gift them love as a direct, involuntary reaction to the way they are. Think of Steven Tyler […]
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Monday, February 1st, 2021 at
1:34 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: love
Love from a person you don’t like doesn’t feel good. It feels icky and suffocating. Intrusive and entitled, presumptuous. Therefore, when people had to get married for families, money, politics, and convenience, there was a high chance only one of the spouses was in love – not always the male. (I swear the root of […]
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Friday, January 15th, 2021 at
1:14 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: love
Love is a healing power. To be loved, you must accept yourself to heal. Suppose you refuse to be healed and expect that you get to remain in your toxic wasteland of unhandled emotional traumas. In that case, you can rest assured you will remain a toxic wasteland of unresolved traumas. NOBODY will want to […]
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Thursday, January 14th, 2021 at
5:50 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Authenticity, love, Soulmate, True Love
When people seek for true love, they mean two different kinds of things: Someone to stick around through thick and thin. (Something that isn’t based on sex.) Someone who will drive me wild, someone I can’t get enough of, someone who is like a drug to me. (Something that is based on sex, but not […]
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