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No matter how much you love your kid, they’re not your True Emotion Mirror

Another major annoyance. It should not be a point of competition that you are your child’s True Emotion Mirror. This is akin to making a competition over being incestuous and potentially child-molesting parent. Although it CAN HAPPEN that a child and parent are each other’s True Emotion Mirrors, it is very much not what we’d […]

Around Thirty You Gave Up and Married Someone You Felt A Little Love For

You grow up dreaming about love. Maybe feeling a little embarrassed about the fact, that deep down, you are not quite as hardened as you’d like people to think. That doesn’t mean you are desperate for love, no. You know it’s unlikely, but it would be so nice to find. There are a lot of […]

Confusing getting attention for love

When a child cries, his or her mother comes running. When a child does something that he or she isn’t supposed to, they get attention from mom or dad. Therefore; be difficult, make a fuss, be annoying, and get attention from mom and dad. Now, a lot of people get stuck in this development phase […]

How do you know True Love?

This question comes up, obviously. 🙂 The question is, to begin with, do you know how to know THE TRUTH, before you try and see true love? Because, if you can’t face the truth, how on Earth could you even recognize true love if it stared you in the face? If your method of living […]

True love or true fantasy? How what could be will never be

Sometimes, you meet a person who seems perfect in every way… Except for that little thing that isn’t quite right. Maybe it’s a huge thing that isn’t right – something so wrong that you don’t think your perfect person minds you fixing it about them. Sometimes, you don’t really know a person, but your imagination […]

How “teaching person ‘how to love'” may render you unloved

I am going to make yet another attempt in explaining how a dynamic between a person who is “in 100%” and someone who is not invested the relationship at all work, and how they still may wind up in a friendship or even married. So just to identify who I’m talking to, first. In your […]

Say goodbye to loyalty – say hello to true love and friends

I’ll declare a ban on loyalty. It is the enemy of true love and friendship, as it so easily ties you to the wrong people, systematically abusive people included. There’s a trick of course. Eventually, you’ll find people who are more important to you than anyone else, and you’ll spend your days making sure that […]

Looking for love in all the wrong places – what does it mean?

As per usual, the Survivalist* would interpret this phrase as looking for love in people who won’t fit in. As in rock stars, drunkards, “bad boys”, you know the idea. However, that’s not what it truly means. It means looking for love in people who won’t love you back – often that being rock […]

What is love, what feels like love, and what is so close to love it feels just like hate

Love is the situation when you see another person the same way they see themselves, and they see you the same way as you see yourself, and you both love what you see in each other. If you see flaw in each other, you agree on what is a flaw and what is a virtue […]

How people who do not love (anyone) try to teach you how to love (them)

To understand how a person who doesn’t truly love anyone operates, let me give you a metaphor. Imagine a child observing an adult start a car. They see them get into the driver’s seat and turn the ignition key. The car starts into a hum, and the adult drives away smooth and happy about their […]

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