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When Love Dies

True love never dies, but the regular type of love most certainly does when pushed too far. Of course, love that is a little less than True Emotion Mirror love is real, too, it’s just that it is conditional. “I’ll love you for as long as you treat me like so.” The True Emotion Mirror […]

The Power of Pestering People for Sex, Love, or Friendship Until They Give In

Ever met someone who pesters people for love and sex or friendship? The kind of people who will say anything it takes to land a good deal on any of those fronts? And again, don’t get alarmed. I, too, love the kind of humorous begging, the kind that accepts no for an answer, if not […]

Love has nothing to do with wealth or status or looks – the Idealists* thinking in the Survivalist* brain

The Idealists* say that love and sexual attraction has very little to do with the externals. They mean that you fall in love with the spirit, and what is on the inside. This means that even though someone is beautiful or handsome or wealthy, doesn’t mean anyone is going to automatically fall in love […]

The Love Game: Breaking Your Heart just to Mend it again

I want you to know this first truth instantly: If a person is in love with you, they will let you break them. They will let you break their heart just so you can be the one healing the heart. No love returned will break you instead If that person is not in love with […]

Must Read: Relationship dynamics when one person is looking for “true love”

I am going to go on at length here, as this is going to explain so much of what you are experiencing – whatever it is that you are going through – that I cannot skip too many parts here. This explains our ’emotional reality’, and, even as this is going to be a large […]

Denial, humility, true love, dreams, and ego

It is beyond frustrating to try and reject someone who doesn’t seem to be getting the message. No matter how much you try to insult them or hurt their feelings to drive them away from you, they find a way to interpret what you say or do as a sign of undying, ultimate, height of […]

Is it possible that a person is in love with someone without realizing they are?

Although it is possible that a person is in denial about their feelings, it is also entirely equally possible that a person in love is in denial that they are not loved back. So how do you know? How deep is denial and why does it happen? I remember reading something when I was a […]

Why is your love not good enough?

If you are ever been in a one-sided relationship, in which love is offered but also rejected, it is surprisingly painful for both parties. The Chaser, as they’re sometimes called, the person who wants the relationship, finds it difficult to understand why the Runner, who doesn’t want the relationship would run. The Runner, on the […]

(RAW, rewrite) How can someone be so cold and unaffected by love shown to them?

I’ll try to be very blunt and honest writing this. I acknowledge it is a taboo to call oneself exceptionally beautiful or well-loved, popular, wanted, cherished or liked. I acknowledge that it is also a taboo for this person to deny the value of other people, and say they understand why these people are not […]

An Obsessive Chaser – Unwanted, One-sided “Love”

There is a possibility that something like the theory of spiritual love, spiritual “rights”, “a spiritual marriage”, or a “spiritual bond” will drive someone insane. Unfortunately, while one group of people desperately needs to hear that they are NOT crazy thinking that the person they love loves them back despite the way things look, because […]

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