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People love giving and receiving pain from their loved ones

Pretty much all people enjoy some kind of pain in their lives. They often like to link it to some feeling of love, too. Some like emotional pain, some like physical pain (particularly when combined with sex). Some love the feeling of self-sacrificing for love. It is rare that a human being tolerates pure happiness […]

How to Avoid Drama. Why people love drama?

Drama is all about high emotions, right? Wrong. It is the AVOIDANCE of real emotions, high or otherwise. It is the fear of seeing oneself for real, the fear of seeing what is ACTUALLY happening. Drama is pulling wools over one’s own eyes, it is pretending that all of this is fantastic or romantic, so […]

Love is selfish; it is clingy and needy, not at all a gift to the person “receiving” it

We MUST stop thinking about love as a gift, for it isn’t. It is not a gift to the person who you feel love for if it is at all a gift, it is a gift to the person who feels it. That is why we pay our idols to be loved, they are PAID […]

You don’t need to love and be friends with everybody.

We’ve all been taught to be friends with everyone and to aim for universal love. However, I have come to the conclusion that this is not a great way to do things. It’s actually AWFUL. This virtue creates most of the unhappiness we feel every single day of our lives. There is a point to […]

Love is a sacrifice vs. Love is a bliss

Sometimes even True Emotion Mirrors hold a different value in this area. One of them feels he or she needs to sacrifice something for his or her partner, and the other feels they want to give that person everything they want, and also receive everything they want from that person – they want love that […]

the Young Soul* Personalities do not need to learn how to love the Elder Souls* Personalities

the Young Soul* Personalities find it very distressing to think that not everyone could be loved by everyone in the best possible way. Therefore, writings like the True Emotion Mirror description or the description on how the Elder Souls* Personalities love each other on True Emotion Mirror level cause them distress because they cannot find […]

“I don’t love you!” and what it means to the Young Soul*

From the Elder Souls*’s perspective, the Young Soul* are insufferably narcissistic. To be fair, they feel the same way about us. (I’m a Elder Souls*, of course.) When you tell them that you don’t love them, they hear you say that you have an emotional issue that you don’t know how to fix, and you’re […]

The Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology is not there to tell you how lousy your love life is compared to other peoples’

This is an important thing to know about the Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology. It is not there to make you feel like a loser. That is not its purpose, OK? The purpose of the typology is to help you trust your intuition when you have met your True Emotion Mirror. It’s there to give you […]

Definition of “to love”

I will teach you how to be the kind of a person that I like. My rules and regulations are like the embrace that I hold you with. I will give you boundaries so you know what will turn me against you if you disobey me or disrespect my rules. I will tell you when […]

How we fall in love

Simple carnal lust over someone is a sign of perfect compatibility with that person. This is NOT a sign of an easy ride, but it is a sign that in the end, you will find a paradise together if you stick with it. Something about each other is drawing you together, and that attraction, the […]

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