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Poly-relationships: True Love or Just Simple Boredom?

Poly-relationships, whichever way you like them, polyandrous, polygynous, group marriage, committed, non-committed, equal, or unequal are all a way to make a lackluster relationship far more interesting in the long run. That is a fact, but not all poly-relationships are about the lack of true love but the opposite; the authentic state of an authentic group of […]

How and when to let go and move on from love or a goal

I always guide my readers to start any process of letting go by contemplating a variation of this sentence: Are you able to accept the theoretical possibility that you cannot have what you want because it wasn’t meant for you? When you are in the emotion of “OK, it is possible this/it/he/she isn’t for me, […]

Soulmate connection: Is this unrequited love or is there hope?

There are a couple of questions to help you decide whether you are holding onto someone who is not your true love or whether you still have hope to have them in your life. Unrequited love can be painful, but is it hopeless? Also, true love doesn’t have to be painful, because emotional pain is […]

Love and cynicism and how to protect yourself from killing true love

Imagine you’re a homeless guy. A man in a pristine suit walks up to you and hands over a bag full of money. “Million dollars.” He says. What do you do? Take the cash, thinking hey, groovy, nothing sus about this, or will you ask one question for every dollar he handed out to you […]

Unrequited love and how to get over someone

The process of getting over someone, especially if it was true love to begin with, is through the same process as getting your ex back: by learning to observe them to the level that you can no longer hide anything about them from yourself… And then let go…

Why are people (men) afraid of love?

Love is the most wonderful feeling, right? Why would anyone shy away from it if it was on offer? It seems nonsensical, still, there is a very good reason for avoiding love, and I’ll tell you what it is. When people love, and they feel they have a RIGHT to love someone, usually by the […]

Love and Mercy – the story of the Beach Boys

This movie, on the surface, looks like just another rock movie with a soft, easy to watch and follow plot line, but it goes much, much deeper than that. There is so much brilliance so carefully hidden away that it is actually quite embarrassing to like – just like Beach Boys.

What is your definition of love?

Different people would define the word “love” very differently if they were given the task. Some people take it for something you do for another person (love is your actions) and some define it with the feeling that you feel toward another person (love is a feeling, independent of your actions)… And so many variations. How do you define love?

Why won’t he/she love me?

This desperate question arises sometimes. Love is the feeling of excitement and delight of seeing someone be amazing. It is not the feeling of wanting to protect someone – although that comes with love. It is not a feeling of ownership, although often connected with the feeling of love. It is also not the feeling […]

Is this real love or am I hanging onto someone I can’t have?

The immediate difference between a True Emotion Mirror on a run and hanging onto someone you can’t have is that if it is real love you will love them even when they reject you, but it is a mixture of feelings. If this is about being a rejection junkie, you don’t really even like them […]

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