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Why do we love some obviously male transwomen and hate others?

There are trans women who we absolutely adore. Both fictional and real. It is easy to say that we love and accept transwomen who look like women, act like women, and think like women, but then there are transwomen who are obviously biologically male, some rocking a full beard, and we adore them, too. To […]

If you want true love, do not alter your behavior and approach because they’re man or a woman.

“Men and women” is an illusion. There are the Timeless and the Modern, but they are not gender-linked. You think they are because if you are a Timeless, you’ve gotten used to hands-on the Modern chasing you, or if you’re the Modern, you love to chase the Timeless because you like a challenge. Savant* […]

the Modern love through obedience and training.

Obedience, to the Modern, is the practice of love. To a Timeless, it’s a kink at best and a punishment at worst. When the Modern searches “How do I make someone obey me?” is effectively the same as a Timeless’ “How do I become a better partner?” “Bossy” or “Obedient” in the Modern’ terms is […]

Old fashioned love relationship ideals maybe holding you from your True Emotion Mirror

There’s the natural way for us to love and bond, and live, and then, there’s the control-based way to love and bond. A lot of it is a historically created solution to problems that no longer apply to us. How is a woman loved? With money or with respect to her talents? Is monogamy really […]

How do you give up on love that you have potentially wasted years trying to resuscitate?

So you love that person, still. Desperately, but they seem not to respond to you the way you want them to. No matter how much you beg, plead, or cry, they are just not responding to your feelings. How do you move on? I know your real question is how do you force them to […]

Maybe your love is just not worth the sacrifice you’re asking of them?

This is a taroty post. Maybe the answer to your question is this: Your love isn’t worth giving up what you ask them to give up on to have you (back). This might be a bitter pill to swallow, so if this post ever comes up again soon, out of the (currently 3000+ posts), tarot […]

Love is… liking oneself more because that cool person likes you.

When someone you’re in love with likes you or is impressed by you, that makes you like yourself more, doesn’t it? Isn’t it one of the nicest feelings to be able to like being oneself more? It’s not ALL that love is, but it is certainly a nice bonus. 😀

Another Are You Actually In Love or is this some other kind of bullshit -test

Can you agree with this statement: There is no shame in loving this person because they are awesome, and you aren’t too stupid or self-centered to notice. If you feel it’s to YOUR CREDIT that you love them, it doesn’t sound like love but that you’re obsessed with them for some other reason? You want […]

My dog told me: “Us dogs just want to be trained into the perfect animal with love.”

My dog, Primo, died several years ago, but he’s been in my spirit company on and off ever since then. He appears in my dreams and sleeps in my bed sometimes as a ghost. This morning, he was in his semi-human form and told us that dogs don’t want to be thought to have been […]

Most people fall in love with the way you think, not with the way you look.

I am the first to declare looks matter, yes. They’re kind of the “minimum requirement” thing, yes. However. That’s not what people fall in love with. They fall with your brain… Therefore, you have to risk it. You have to talk about yourself. Give them something to love about you. You know what men tend […]

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