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Saturday, October 12th, 2024 at
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October 12, 2024 Tags: love
The three levels of love: When you are in love with someone, you feel happy about their happiness. It becomes important to you that they are happy, and when they are, you are happy. You don’t care what makes them happy – you wish it to be you, but you are not strict about that. […]
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Sunday, September 22nd, 2024 at
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September 22, 2024 Tags: looking for love, love
There are two ways to define true love. One is “despite everything you are or are not,” and the other is “because of everything you are or are not.” What this means is that while one way you can drop your act, stop trying, and slump into the sofa knowing you’ll be forever loved, the […]
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Saturday, September 14th, 2024 at
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September 14, 2024 Tags: Authenticity, love, Soulmate, True Love
You are ashamed that you have to do something for love, right? You’re envious of babies who get to shit their pants and be graded and fed and smiled at all day long, right? What do they have that you don’t, you ask. Age, on their side, is what. It stops being cute around […]
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Saturday, August 31st, 2024 at
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August 31, 2024 Tags: love, Romantic Chemistry, sexual attraction, Sexual Identity, Soups
Today, I discovered there’s another type of sexuality that I’ve been only semi-aware of. It’s called symbiosexuality. It means that you’re sexually attracted to a pre-existing couple and their ‘synergy.’ Me as a cynic, I sometimes find a little ‘mocky’ explanations to be quite effective; it seems like a type of love tourism; you are […]
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Saturday, August 24th, 2024 at
1:44 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: love, Narcissism
Narcissists** do love you. It’s not at all that they don’t love you; in fact, they do love you desperately, genuinely, and authentically. The problem is that they don’t have good coping mechanisms for that love. This applies to narcissistic parents, as well. They view love as a weakness; they feel powerless in that feeling. […]
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Friday, August 23rd, 2024 at
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August 23, 2024 Tags: connection, Embracing Vulnerability, love, Romantic Chemistry, Soulful Living, Soulmate, Spiritual Growth
If you are in a situation where someone is persistently in love with you and demanding a chance, give them permission to love you as much as they do, and give them a chance to prove to you that they do, indeed, love you. Do not promise to love them back, however, or to have […]
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Saturday, August 17th, 2024 at
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August 17, 2024 Tags: Arguing, Attachment Styles, love, signs, Soulmate
Bickering and arguing in a relationship is truly NOT GREAT when the relationship isn’t solid. Either both of you avoid arguments or only one of you does, but even if you normally HATE bickering and arguing and “being in a mood” in average relationships, in a secure, love-filled relationship, these things will suddenly feel amusing. […]
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Tuesday, August 6th, 2024 at
3:43 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 6, 2024 Tags: love
Now, I do say there is no such thing as unconditional love in the sense that your love ignites under certain conditions, and therefore, there are always conditions to love. However, there are people who are looking for unconditional love and believe everyone else is, too. People who are particularly looking for unconditional love are […]
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Tuesday, August 6th, 2024 at
2:46 am in Australia - Last edit on
August 6, 2024 Tags: love, Unconditional Love
Love is ALWAYS conditional. Always. Always. Always. When it’s your child, the conditions are lower than when it’s someone else’s (adult) child in question. The conditions may be: “As long as you’re beautiful, successful, wealthy…” or “as long as you remain pathetic, pitiful, ugly, and needy freak.” Now, the question you need to answer is […]
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Saturday, August 3rd, 2024 at
1:24 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: love, Narcissism
There are True Emotion Mirrors who will deny loving each other as a form of lover’s game of chase. The idea is that although the love is mutually agreed to be obvious, they’ll both… or the other… play hard to get, pretending they’re not in love even though they both (should) know they’re only pretending. […]
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