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Is it right to feel sex would be a factor in a relationship based on true romantic love?

Yes. There is absolutely no reason why sex would go away from a relationship between two physically healthy people who are in love IF they are sexual in the first place. There are people who are asexual, and there’s nothing to change that, but they shouldn’t be in relationships with sexual people. Asexual people are […]

Love takes courage. (How much are you allowed as a man?)

Many men tend to react to the fear of doing the wrong thing by a woman by letting her take the lead. Most women don’t like being in complete charge, however. It’s a little like being in a relationship with your smartphone, right? A little pushback is nice. Having said that, a lot of men […]

Just because they loved you once, doesn’t mean they were ever going to love you forever.

Love awakens often on an illusion. Another person may think you are one way and then it turns out you’re different from that. The truth changes things. That doesn’t mean you’re a bad person, just not the one they were looking for. Not even one of the ones they were looking for. People romanticize their […]

The danger is that when you act “unlovably” on purpose, all the wrong people will fall in love with you.

Let me tell you a harrowing story about my past. When I was growing up, I always knew I’d move somewhere far, far away from where I was born. I never really liked living where my parents lived, it all felt suffocating and small. Therefore, knowing one day I’d say goodbye to everyone I knew, […]

To get true love you have to learn how to be charming.

There are people who confuse unconditional love with true love. Unconditional love, however, is reserved for infant babies. Children over 6 years old are learning fast how to be charming – how to be nice and fun to be with. A baby is given unconditional love because that’s the key to their survival. Adults, however, […]

You cry for love… Like an infant baby.

When you are a baby, you will cry for love, care, attention, being cared for… And you shall receive what you ask. This privilege will end around the time you turn 6. After that, a normal person will start working toward making others feel good about themselves. A normally developing child will try and be […]

Real or Fantasy – True Love at First Sight or just a foolish crush?

Here’s the interesting thing: I trust people to fall in love at first sight MORE than I trust them falling in love with someone nice they’ve gotten to know a bit. The reason is this: Your instinct can lead you to the right one; your soul recognizes its’ true lover (even if there’s a few […]

Is it actually possible that someone doesn’t care that you love them?

Yes, it is. Absolutely it is. Happens all the time.   And there might still not be anything wrong with that person, especially if you’ve been pestering them with the love for long enough for them to find it not even flattering or sad, but blatantly angering that you do not understand that the feelings […]

I mainly believe in love at first sight

Not only do I believe in love at first sight, I don’t truly believe in any other kind.

Clear rules on how to find love.

Much of this is OBVIOUS to some people, while there is more than likely a kernel of wisdom in there for everybody. Stop settling for less than what you want. STOP seeing your options for finding true love to be limited to people who you know. There are 8 billion people, which means 8 billion […]

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