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You may have taken very unreliable sings of love to mean the real thing.

If you think nagging a person into loving you is a reliable way to find true love because you think nagging is so unpleasant that if they didn’t love you, they’d leave you… No. Some people hate negative labels more. If you think that someone who is obviously above you in a social rank of […]

Why does the Normal Person* think you’re in love with them or flirting with them when you truly are not.

the Normal Person* have a bizarre way of thinking. They think that kindness, friendliness, and helpfulness are all signs of trying to unite and be one with them. They think that every compliment, everything that is nice or the right thing to do by another, is like an application fee or a demand for a […]

Only publish what you love.

Stop doing “good enough”, it’s RUBBISH. You don’t need to be brilliant all the time, you don’t need to IMPRESS with every post or article or video you post on the Internet (and I know we all are publishers these days)… But what you DO need to do is to only publish stuff you love. […]

What if I don’t care that they don’t love me, I still want to be with them?

Being in love with another person is not a favor to them. They are doing a favor to others by being lovable to other people – not just you. Your job, in a relationship, is to do all in your power to be as lovable as your partner or friend, and failing that, to take […]

Why giving false hope (even by playfully flirting) to someone you would never date or love is not nice.

Imagine you’re a celebrity, gorgeous, talented, and amazing. At your fan meeting, you flirt with all the ugly girls or guys, because you think they would NEVER take your flirtation seriously, and there would be no press coverage of “you having found new love” because it is obvious your interest isn’t real, it’s just fun. […]

Karmic Soulmates are held together by a dependency, not by love.

Karmic Soulmates are held together by something the other has that the other cannot replace, or both need something from each other that they currently don’t know how to replace. For instance, money, fame, status, even simple safety or a semblance of comfort… There can be a lot of motivations for karmic bonds, but the […]

Your friends’ idea of what love is will potentially screw up your love life.

It is important that you hang out with people much like yourself if you want to experience something. The reason for this is that your friends want what is best for you, but their definition of “the best” may vary quite a bit from yours. For instance, if you want to experience “True love,” your […]

The 3 sides to experiencing true love.

There are 3 factors that go into true love; to be loved, to be lovable, and to love. If you’ve only ever been around lovable people, you have no idea what it feels like NOT to LOVE. You may even think that your ability to love the people around you is to YOUR credit, and […]

How can I love someone who WON’T love me back?

Connection points

The sexual energy (and love) between True Emotion Mirrors is strong enough for others to sense it, too.

True Emotion Mirrors find it difficult to hide the sexual and romantic energy between them. Especially if they are not used to hiding it (as some people can do), they seem like flaming red fireballs near each other and feel that way, too. (No wonder other theories call them twin flames.) It is the kind […]

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