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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
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April 5, 2025 Tags: love, Narcissism
There are people who think to be loved by someone is to own them. And that to own something means permission to use, destroy, or disregard it without anyone having a say in the matter, like owning a kitchen utensil until it’s no longer useful or fashionable. I mean this in a very real sense, […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: love
To you, it may sound like an obvious thing, but to those of you who feel so unselfish that you think whether you’re loved back or not shouldn’t matter, read on. It matters. It matters A LOT. To most normal people, this post is an unnecessary read. Read it anyway, just in case, but don’t […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
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June 13, 2024 Tags: friends, love, Love Relationships, Moral questions, Sex, Sexual Identity
This is going to be profoundly disturbing for True Emotion Mirrors. There are people who automatically link sex to murder and love to a tragic death in their minds like there is no other alternative. Without the tragic death of one or the other lover, these people believe the love will eventually turn stale. They […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
June 13, 2024 Tags: love
There are people who believe that those who suffer the most deserve the most love. They also believe that being loved will ultimately make people happy, and that the most worthy of people cannot be loved enough to make them happy enough not to kill themselves, and they are, thus, the most worthy, the most […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:53 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: fate, Internet, love, Soulmate
To my shock and horror, it is not obvious to some people that one-sided love is not a basis for a relationship. They seem to take one-sided love as fate dictating who gets to be loved and who has to be the servant in the relationship.
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
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June 13, 2024 Tags: love, Thinker Type, Normal Person*
Again a slightly different way of explaining the difference between the Keen and the Savants* in their bonding strategies. The Normal Person* are quite easily coaxed away from “a hopeful” state with another person. If they cannot make a Savants* fall in love with them with the attention they’re showing them (and they […]
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Sunday, January 21st, 2024 at
2:35 am in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: Authenticity, love, Soulmate, True Love, warnings
Look, I’m not saying that true love doesn’t exist; it does. Still, take a little self-scan and answer that question: Do you want true love (partly) because you think it would take a small miracle for you to be loved?
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Sunday, January 14th, 2024 at
10:36 pm in Australia - Last edit on
Tags: love, Parenting
There are ton of people whose idea of love is limited to parental love. It will always destroy romantic and sexual love sooner or later. Parental love CANNOT be used as a template for romantic love. This is the reason: If one person is looking for a new mom or dad, they’re going to test […]
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Sunday, January 14th, 2024 at
10:28 pm in Australia - Last edit on
May 4, 2024 Tags: love, Unconditional Love
If you are one of those people who are looking for unconditional love, please do understand this: It doesn’t exist one-sidedly, anyway. And when it goes both ways, it’s what we call “a mutually abusive” relationship. Unconditional love is reserved for toddlers and people fallen into very bad times. But even then, it is only […]
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Monday, January 8th, 2024 at
12:33 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Authenticity, love, Narcissism, Soulmate, True Love
You won’t believe it until it happens – you’ll feel reassured if it already has: true love ignites at first sight, but false love ignites through attention received. Both need attention shown to go somewhere. If your goal is to “just find someone,” this post is not really relevant to you at all, but if […]
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