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Marriage and Divorce as per Cat Type Thinking* and Lover-thinking* way

Marriage contracts should be reformatted by the Lover-thinking* and Cat Type Thinking* manner. The couple should be asked to agree before marrying on the terms of the dissolving of the marriage; can one partner file for a divorce alone, or do both partners need to sign the divorce paper, without coercion, to be considered legal? […]

How do you know you’re heading for a bad marriage?

There are certain signs you can look for when you’re headed down the aisle with the wrong person. They can be either mildly wrong, like just wrong for you but otherwise, a great person or they can be downright abusive. Some signs are still the same. Many of them are grounded in the belief true […]

A True Emotion Mirror relationship is NOTHING like what is normally considered a “committed relationship” or “a marriage”

I feel the need to address non-True Emotion Mirrors1 on this website, as well, because they can easily cause issues here for themselves and others, not fully understanding what we are talking about here. Sometimes being helpful is not helpful at all, especially if you think you’re talking about the same thing, but are, in […]

The danger of winding up in a sexless marriage

Both men and women may fear winding up in a sexless marriage. The prevalence of sexless marriages, in general, is the result of a profound mischaracterization of what “heterosexuality” means in women. When closet lesbian women try to lay a foundation for themselves to get married as a matter of course, they also want it […]

True Emotion Mirrors and marriage

There are people who believe that the measure of a relationship is its durability in time. They believe that the longer a relationship lasts, the more valuable it is. If this is the way you happen to value a relationship, then your ideal partner is the Lovers’ Choice Soulmate* (a willing and co-operating Trail Companion*). […]

Protecting your authentic self from your work and your marriage

As your coach, I wish to advise you to avoid all life paths that lead to the suffocation of your authentic self. One of the most certain ways to suffocate large areas of your self is subscribing to the expectations of professional or marital life – worse yet, both. That is not to say a […]

Why are we still arguing over something as simple as gay marriage?

This is going to hit you in the gut so bad. We’ve been arguing over stuff like gay marriage for yonks now. Every the Old Souls* in this world has already decided, many times over, that it is none of their business who people choose to love and care for and call their spouse, even […]

Marriages survive all the time, but does passionate love survive marriage?

Still dreaming of getting married? Let me tell you a little something about marriage, you naive little thing. 😉 Let me tell you this, first: I believe in eternal love, I believe in passionate, fierce, true love, I believe in love at first sight, I believe in telepathic connection between soulmates, I am a true […]

A new way to think about marriage

Normally, when people marry their hidden motivation is to protect a shaky relationship by marrying the other person. This is to create an invisible fencing around the other person: “Keep away, have pity, do not take my spouse away from me, I own them.” VERY OFTEN (not always) marriage is a sign of insecurity rather […]

Group Marriage – several wives and several husbands

This group is most likely to form naturally without societal pressure because it starts with a friendship. The people who don’t really fit in will be taken out of the group by life’s other temptations, and those who belong will stay from year to year. There is a constant sexual energy between the members of this type of group…