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A narcissist may actually feel all the gratitude that they display on their social media even though their lives are pretty ordinary.

You know the narcissistic social media post, don’t you? “I have such a rich life; I’m blessed.” “I am so grateful of all these wonderful friends I’ve got…” “Life, perfect!” To a normal person, their level of gratitude seems absolutely mental. Cannot be real. We scoff at them when we see their very ordinary life […]

Your New Complete Social Media Strategy

General: Reward behavior you like with attention as much as you can, EVEN IF the person wasn’t after attention per se. Ignore nasty comments. Like posts that you like. Hold comments for review where possible and have a staff member read them before you. Reply to as many nice people in your comments as you […]

Avoiding attracting the Dog Type Thinker (on social media).

the Dog Type Thinker, to the Cat Type Thinkers pose a continual problem on Social Media. They post irritating videos, they do irritating things, and they insult you personally, all just to get your attention. They want you to NOTICE THEM and they’ll do anything to make that happen: demonstrate inferiority by posting completely crap […]

Should you limit your time on Social Media (or whatever is your current favorite time waster)?

What annoys me about “efficiency” motivators, is that they make you think like the purpose of your life would be… Well, efficiency. Constant, relentless efficiency. Stress about not stressing, stress to relax, rush around and worry if your every minute is spent to the fullest of it’s potential. If you enjoy the Internet, social media, […]

When the public (social media) idea of you is something completely fictional…

“Oh, but you’re not selfish at all!” a fan who has finally met you finds. While it’s nice to be nicer than expected, it’s hardly fun to have good people avoid your company because they believe nobody would LIE about a person and give them a bad reputation or put them in a bad light […]

Social media problem: “If you dislike me so much, why are you watching/reading?”

On social media (and media, to be fair) we often wonder the motivations of people who seemingly hate “everything” you do, but they’re still there, begging for your acknowledgment for the fact they’re offended or they don’t like what you’re doing. This is done by people who are used to pleasant social conversations only. There […]

On your social media, never speak to your (full) enemies directly

Times are changing. Times HAVE changed. We are all potential broadcasters if we are not broadcasters. (One-to-many.) This means, that you cannot directly control who listens to your message, and who responds to it. You will be talking about things you wouldn’t normally entrust with everyone. You try to speak to your friends, but a […]

Should Johnny Depp or his fans care what mainstream media says about him?

Amber Heard is doing one thing right. She truly is. It is not really MORALLY right nor wrong, but it is certainly strategically right. IF Johnny Depp should learn anything from Amber, it would be her blatant disregard to what is being said about her in SOCIAL media and apply that same disregard to what […]

Social media over-hyping and undermining high quality web

In the dawn of times that matter to me, ie. when I first got online in 1998 and my life took a sudden upward swing in all things awesome, everything online was still fun and games and the big businesses were trying to wrap their heads around what to do with the damned thing. Still, […]

What not to Say on Social Media

Common social media mistakes The the Cat Type Thinkers may take to social media to instruct their fans on how to behave. (Justin, this is you!) They do this because they would never want to correct any specific person directly because that would be too direct and too confronting, but they approach the entire fan base thinking […]