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Making your partner happy – and the effects of it on your status

Typically, men assume and some women believe, that a man’s job is to make her happy. Solely. The prettier the woman, the more people expect she demands for the right to call her a girlfriend. That way around, he exists to make her happy. Therefore, a low-status man can become a husband to a beautiful […]

Have you done “all in your power” to salvage a relationship? (And if not, should you?)

Do you know that nagging feeling that you’re giving up on someone too easily? Too early? That there’s still something you could have done to rescue that relationship? You know what? That is not the right question to ask yourself, really. The real question is: Have you done everything you are willing to do in […]

Power move: Building a HEALTHY false ego to change people’s vos

Yes, I understand! The idea of a healthy false ego is a contradiction in terms! It’s similar to terms like consensual rape or giving a guilty plea while maintaining innocence. Yet, sometimes, contradictions can work as a beautiful combination of things that shouldn’t exist in the same room, like pink and green. Building a healthy […]

The Power of Pestering People for Sex, Love, or Friendship Until They Give In

Ever met someone who pesters people for love and sex or friendship? The kind of people who will say anything it takes to land a good deal on any of those fronts? And again, don’t get alarmed. I, too, love the kind of humorous begging, the kind that accepts no for an answer, if not […]

Love has nothing to do with wealth or status or looks – the Savants* thinking in the Normal Person* brain

The Savants* say that love and sexual attraction has very little to do with the externals. They mean that you fall in love with the spirit, and what is on the inside. This means that even though someone is beautiful or handsome or wealthy, doesn’t mean anyone is going to automatically fall in love […]

Money – The Good, The Bad, The Ugly

Spiritually speaking, money is a bit of a difficult topic. We all need to eat, but there is a persistent belief that makes money “dirty”, and that you shouldn’t “taint” anything good with it. Where this idea comes from is probably vicious, violent, and self-serving greed attached to money and gold, which is not really […]

“Stay out of our business” – should you listen?

I am a victim of people who don’t know when to back the fuck off. I don’t know exactly what drives your kind of people into pushing their noses into other people’s business, what makes you think you have the right to control, manipulate, and push people around, but something has. You may be a […]

Reclaiming your own power under the pressure of fans and supporters

Authenticity is the state of staying true to yourself and surrounding yourself with the people who you TRULY trust as opposed to people who trust themselves to be the best thing for you. The trust must be mutual. True trust is mutual: I will put my fate in your hands as you put yours in […]

How to make a person who thinks your business is theirs stay out of your business?

People who like to stay equal to people don’t really confront people too easily. They can be a bit of a push-over at times. I personally tend to let over-bearing people huff and puff and then ignore them as they fuck off, as their opinion, to me, means absolutely nothing. Unfortunately, they may think this is […]

The Law of The Truest Wish; Relationship Clean Up for Business

When I first started reading the principles of The Law of The Truest Wish, one thing that really clanked in my ear BAD was the idea that you will have to drop your friends and family members who are holding you back and keeping you in negative thinking. My first instinct was: “it cannot be […]

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