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How to get over a feeling of aimlessness and feeling stuck in lack of motivation?

If you’re feeling aimless, lost, sort of depressed, lacking direction or goals, here’s a lit of things you could do. No need to do all of them, at least not right now, but you could. List of things to do to find your way back to reality through spirituality. Now, I have a few words […]

the Survivalist* Thinking narcissist counts success in friends and try to gain status to make more friends.

the Survivalist* counts success in love and friends, even if they have to fake it. If they feel they have to care for someone’s reputation, they want to create a facade of “they’re more loved than you” around someone they care about – either themselves or someone they feel sorry for. A Survivalist* […]

The deliberate misunderstanding

Narcissists** tend to sometimes deliberately misunderstand you to get what they want; to give you what they think you want. You say: “Yes, ultimately, I want to get married,” thinking you’re asking a generic question. A narcissist will misunderstand it: “Eventually, I will marry you.” Later, they will hold you to it: “You said you […]

Accessory friends (and what they potentially cost you.)

I believe we’ve all been born pretty damned narcissistic, back in some early early early incarnation of ours. From lifetime to lifetime, we become less so when we start to understand other people and their position better. We stop abusing others, even if in the way is the super narcissistic phase where you take pride […]

Hiding a shameful secret and pretending it’s not there – Are you a narcissist?

Mostly, we try to find ways to identify a narcissist looking at someone else. But it’s REALLY HARD to understand what a narcissist experiences on the inside. And because we don’t understand, we can’t help. This post might help, even if you find out you’re a narcissist. I say, “narcissism is a performance of a […]

Are they selfish or just afraid to lose something actually important to them?

When you accuse someone of being selfish or intrusive, the motivation of that person is usually not selfishness or greed but a fear of losing something or not having access to something that belongs to them. The thing they hold onto might be something that isn’t all that important, not even for them, but they […]

Superior narcissist reaction to a person who outclasses them by a thousand fold.

Narcissists** are not always what you’d call ‘superior.’ They’re not always what you think of a narcissist when you hear the words physically beautiful, born rich, maybe entitled, and cruel. No, most narcissists are VERY mundane, trying hard to pretend to measure up, forcing others to pretend that they’re equal or superior. But this post […]

How do you know when someone actually doesn’t care?

In my blog, I often discuss how you can tell someone cares about you even though they seem to reject you. But what about the other way around? When someone acts like they care but doesn’t, really? Not when shit gets real so to speak. I write a lot about a situation when you have […]

Why some conflicts do not have an amicable ending in sight?

A never-ending feud between two people is usually about two very different types of people fighting toward an opposite or different goal. One person fights about the topic at hand and the other fights about something different. One person is trying to guess what the real issue is, while the other is trying to communicate […]

People who want to destroy you so they can help you and thus become your equals and friends can alter your ability to manifest.

No man is an island, and while the concept of the law of attraction mentions how important it is to surround yourself with the right people, sometimes that’s not possible. There are factors at play that make changing friends to the ones you want simply impossible. If there are people who want you for themselves, […]

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