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People with this bonding disorder see other people’s sexual and romantic preferences as a frustrating inconvenience to their own marital plans.

Most nice people have experience with people who have a type of anyone will do -bonding disorder. Most single people are looking to marry eventually. We are all looking for someone special to spend the rest of our lives with. Poly or monogamous, we will and should remain picky about who we will eventually form […]

People with this bonding disorder see other people’s sexual preferences as a frustrating inconvenience to their own marital plans.

Most nice people have experience with people who have a type of anyone will do -bonding disorder. Most single people are looking to marry eventually. We are all looking for someone special to spend the rest of our lives with. Poly or monogamous, we will and should remain picky about who we will eventually form […]

Don’t let your girlfriend coach you how you should express emotion.

A narcissistic woman runs her life like a play put on for herself. They’re a director of their own movie of life, and that often comes with the side dish of directing the romantic opposite in her life. When to propose, how, what to buy for presents, how to express things, that all comes from […]

If your partner is making you into someone you don’t want to be, you have a right to leave.

I urge all people to STOP BEING LOYAL TO A FLAW. You shouldn’t hold loyalty as a character trait you’re proud of. Loyalty is something that happens as a reaction to another person’s good character, the way they treat you, the way they treat others, and the things they do for other people. Loyalty should […]

If you get upset a lot, you might have to reassess your expectations.

There are few realities that people must accept in order to remain calmer in life. If you have unrealistic expectations of other people, you get disappointed a lot. You feel VIOLATED when people are treating you fairly or quite predictably. For instance… Expecting people to respect your pronouns and having a massive emotional response every […]

People with intimacy issues will hang onto relationships in which they are not quite wanted.

When you have a fear of intimacy, you run from relationships that are actually available to you and cling to those that are not. That makes the relationship very superficial and thus manageable for someone who has a fear of intimacy. They will never have to measure up to the expectations of a spouse or […]

Two-Sided Emotion Mirror

To some of you, the Two-Sided Emotion Mirror is very similar to a True Emotion Mirror. You may already be CONVINCED that the person you’re thinking about is a True Emotion Mirror, and if you are CONVINCED, you need to read this, but also, if you doubt whether your TrEmoR feels the same as you, […]

“They don’t care about anybody but themselves!” What might that mean?

When a person is frustrated about another person “only caring about themselves,” there’s two possibilities that the person might mean. One is: “I think this person has a lot of potential and have offered them a lot of opportunities to show me they care about me, but they don’t.” Or “This person says they care […]

What you imagine another person will feel about your action is how they feel. Focus on your actual intent.

Imagine approaching a dog and thinking, “Oh, he’s going to escape because I’m going to grab it and lock it into a grate…” It is important for animals—including us—to be aware of each other’s intent in our interactions. Most of the time, we don’t have much of an intent in mind. We just do things […]

Narcissism according to the Survivalist* vs. The Idealists*

the Survivalist* are dependent on other people and, thus, their approval. Their highest calling in life is to make their same-sex parent proud of them. They believe this to be true for all people. They believe in the unity of a group (usually a family) and hold the ideal of sameness – equality achieved […]

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