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Wednesday, March 6th, 2024 at
3:22 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Love Relationships, Narcissism, Sex, Sexual Identity
Mind you, I’m saying STRATEGY. This is the keyword here: strategy to bag the bloke. I don’t mean you should sleep with every guy who wants to sleep with you at once; I’m saying being calculative about who you sleep with is a terrible strategy. Sex should happen when you both want it. Sex should […]
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Friday, March 1st, 2024 at
6:15 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: impressiveness, Love Relationships, Narcissism, Sex, Sexual Identity
People have bad sex all the time. The purpose of it is to “be right” by someone else’s standards. To impress somebody, like the genuine target of their sexual attraction, that may not be gender compatible. For example, a closet lesbian woman may try to impress a straight woman she has a crush on by […]
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Friday, March 1st, 2024 at
2:13 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Authenticity, love, Narcissism, Soulmate, True Love
There are people who confuse unconditional love with true love. Unconditional love, however, is reserved for infant babies. Children over 6 years old are learning fast how to be charming – how to be nice and fun to be with. A baby is given unconditional love because that’s the key to their survival. Adults, however, […]
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Monday, February 19th, 2024 at
9:41 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: fears, Narcissism
I have to change my mind about something; I said earlier that people’s greatest fear is not failure but embarrassment. However, there is another feeling we fear… Dread even: the feeling of guilt. I didn’t realize this because I’ve always avoided the feeling of guilt by never doing anything that might make me feel guilty […]
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Saturday, February 10th, 2024 at
6:28 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: friends, Narcissism, shame and guilt, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
If the Survivalist* has decided they want to be friends with you, there are not many things that can stop them. They are amazingly good at tiring you out, and forcing you to cut your losses; “if it means that much to them, FINE, let’s be friends.” That friendship, obviously, on your side, isn’t […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, Soulmates, Spirituality, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love
The True Emotion Mirror phenomena is troublesome in two ways: First, it happens. Second, the spiritual myth that accompanies the real phenomena can be very dangerous for some individual’s psyche. It is important to know where these beliefs come from and how much of it is true.
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Breakup and Divorce, Narcissism, Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology, Soulmates, True Emotion Mirrors, True Love
I always keep insisting that if you want to break up with a True Emotion Mirror1 (without having the background feeling of “until things are right between us again,”) it’s not a True Emotion Mirror. In other words, nobody wants out of a healthy relationship, so if you want to break up with someone (because […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
Narcissists** do love you and like you. You should be aware of WHY or HOW they like/love you to pin your attention to it when you feel it: They like you for the things you can do for them – your skills they can utilize (for free) or the money you are good at making. […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
There are two ways to get to know someone; the Survivalist*and the Idealists* way… Or, if you will, the narcissistic way and the narcissistic way – depending entirely on your own way of thinking, the opposite, to you, will seem narcissistic. the Survivalist* way: So what is the role you need me […]
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Tuesday, February 6th, 2024 at
9:54 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: hope, Narcissism
After all of the years of coaching people, I still succumb to that thought: “It is unrealistic to hope THIS or THAT could be achieved.” I mean… I can entertain the thought of practical physical immortality as a realistic possibility (that aging won’t kill us), still, I cannot think I could completely eliminate women from […]
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