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People’s first psychological motivation is to retain their idea of reality intact.

Imagine there are no mirrors. There has never been any mirrors. You cannot tell what you look like. The only way to know what you look like is by the reaction of other people; do they find you attractive, and how attractive are the people who find you attractive? Your only way to observe who […]

Karmic Soulmates are held together by a dependency, not by love.

Karmic Soulmates are held together by something the other has that the other cannot replace, or both need something from each other that they currently don’t know how to replace. For instance, money, fame, status, even simple safety or a semblance of comfort… There can be a lot of motivations for karmic bonds, but the […]

Spending a lifetime being offended.

There are people, in increasing numbers these days, who choose to spend their lives being offended. A feeling of offense comes from realizing that another person holds a negative view of you or someone you like. Sometimes the negative suggestion is imagined; another person points out a purely neutral trait of yours or another person, […]

Narcissistic Personality Disorder or True Emotion Mirror?

Incredibly, this is something you might need to consider when you fall for someone so hard you seem to have lost your mind.

Quotes – I once said:

Some people are literally turned on by their spouse doing domestic duties. They should marry from within that group. Your authentic way of being is unnatural to another person. Don’t let them brainwash you into their natural; your inauthentic. Love is: “I want all of your individual emotions for myself; then, we’ll have mutual feelings […]

Is my True Emotion Mirror real?

True Emotion Mirrors are so perfect for you that there is a time when you start questioning either your own sanity or gullibility. You wonder if you might be taken for a ride; can a person actually be this right for you? Did they hack your email or online diary and then make themselves into […]

Those who confuse “own” with “love”

There are people who think to be loved by someone is to own them. And that to own something means permission to use, destroy, or disregard it without anyone having a say in the matter, like owning a kitchen utensil until it’s no longer useful or fashionable. I mean this in a very real sense, […]

What is the line between being real/honest/authentic with others and having private thoughts nobody needs to know about?

Incredibly, it’s been ten years since I lost all privacy from my brain. Every thought, every impulse, everything I think about, tried to suppress, real thought or just a knee-jerk reaction, all of that is broadcasted to every spirit with me – which is… A lot of people. Often these thoughts are about them. “Oh, […]

How persistent is a narcissist’s faith you’ll be back.

A narcissist can be an incurable optimist. As much as they are afraid of being abandoned (hence they try to “lift their profile” artificially when needed) they always somehow trust in unconditional love and their bond with the people in their lives. They fear abandonment, so they believe everyone else does, too, and they figure […]

If you’re trying to impress others (to not lose face) do this.

Play down your own intelligence to boost the ego of an intelligent person There are people who think that smart or talented people are always functioning from full ego and narcissism, and they feel that to make friends with someone like that, they have to fully devote themselves to the worship of their idol’s intelligence. […]

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