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Fake it ’till you make it – the merits and culprits

There’s a popular saying: “fake it ’till you make it” for those who are looking for success. It is sometimes very beneficial for you to fake success where it doesn’t exist yet. Tony Robbins parked his clunker of a car far away from the venues where he knew multimillionaires were having a social get-together, owned […]

Narcissists** play a role for themselves; a performance of a lifetime to the audience of one.

If you’ve wondered why you cannot appeal to the narcissist’s sense of reality, shame, or guilt, it’s because in their world, you’re about as real as a character in a movie they’re playing for themselves. They’re only annoyed if the plot doesn’t go their way, as they see themselves as the only significant character, and […]

The fear of vanity.

Most perfectionists have a fear of vanity. We’ve been cautioned against it, because, as always, vanity gets in the way of other people’s wishes regarding your love for them. “He’s so vain; he only sees himself and doesn’t give me a time of his day.” However, he enjoys his mirror image; he loves to treat […]

Definition of “true love” and your personal bar

People interpret the expression of true love differently. First of all, people who don’t feel much loved at all think people who are looking for true love are looking for someone to love them. Unconditionally, I might add. In contrast, people who feel they are much loved and quite popular are looking for someone they, […]

Feeling guilty over your own internal observations.

Opinions are like assholes; we all have one. Right? You are entitled to your thoughts, even if they are negative or “insulting” to another person. If I look at you and think, “Oh my god, she’s both ugly and mean!” and you look at me thinking, “Wow, she’s both ugly and mean!” am I responsible […]

Stop fighting your very nature (even if it is common, gender-conformist, and not weird at all.)

Individuality is an ideal that should liberate you from the norm and expectations and allow you to be your authentic person, no matter how weird it is. THIS gets a lot of people (Young Soul*) quite confused. Typically, Young Soul* are quite common and ordinary, and when everything around them is about individuality and alternative […]

Me leaving my friends and family behind to join my TrEmoRs is not a universal expectation.

If you pull this post up, you might know a bit about me personally. The fact I have left my friends and family behind to be with my True Emotion Mirrors has NOTHING to do with my True Emotion Mirrors. My friends and family… Let’s just say I have made bad decisions in my previous […]

Your stupidity is your own responsibility.

I say: “If you were in any way involved, even when it’s not your fault, it’s still your fault.” What this means, is that if you didn’t see it coming, it’s your fault it happened to you, even if what happened was the action of someone else you let in against your better judgment maybe. […]

Fear and hatred of men creates angry men to be feared.

Ladies, you aren’t doing anyone a favor by spreading hatred of men – you literally create more of what you’re saying you hate… Without even giving birth to sons. You are also turning into the very thing you say you hate about men. LEARN. Be better. Raise your bar – not theirs. Men will always […]

Narcissists** want what they can’t have – therefore they’re always after the Old Souls*.

the Old Souls* have a very clear idea of who they are, what they want, and what they don’t want. This, to a narcissist with intimacy issues and a commitment phobia, is a safe zone. As they chase you for what they know they can’t have, they’ll feel like they are the more willing-to-bond partner […]

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