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You don’t need to be an obedient person in order to be a good one… And definitely not in order to be the smart or perfect one.

No sane person wants to be forced into doing something they find unpleasant, unnatural, or painful. Not one. No sane person wants to force another person to do anything they find unpleasant, unnatural, or painful. There are, however, a lot of people, who are not all entirely sane, who want to force others to do […]

Your true friends and lovers love your ideal future vision of yourself… Not necessarily what you are now.

What you want and wish to be is, in some sense, more important about you than what you currently are. Obviously, you cannot just narcissistically make yourself believe you already are what you wish you were in the future and skip the work involved to get there, but what you wish you were, ultimately, is […]

Why some people can’t trust nice people (and why nice people don’t care).

So. There are nice, kind people in this world who don’t have to TRY to be nice, even though they sometimes feel the pressure to pretend they like you more than they do; they simply ARE nice and well-intentioned. Their biggest joy is to make people happy, to uplift them, and to help people grow […]

To turn the Young Soul* thinker off you, you must prevent them from using you to make themselves look good

the Young Soul* love others for and by making each other look good in the eyes of an outside observer. They don’t care much about what’s going on internally as long as you look like the Kennedys on the outside. (The Kennedys are a perfect example of the Young Soul* family, too. They lobotomized the […]

Biggest Pickup Don’t’s

There are some really bad moves that people use at nightclubs when they try to hit on people. These are the EVEN IF YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO yet, STOP doing this -list! Don’t hit on EVERY member of the opposite (your target) gender in the room. People will notice even if you think […]

Personality Mirror Soulmate Typology – Soulmate Types

Destination Soulmate These soulmates mirror each other’s principles and values exactly. The three types of soulmates are a match to each other by their life values, their moral principles, and what they value in life in general. The True Emotion Mirrors and Precious Soulmates share very intricate, detailed principles, not identical between different pairings and […]

A narcissist parent can see your wish to make money as an attempt to control them or their decisions.

Narcissists**’ children may find it very difficult to manifest success in their lives. As the Law Of Attraction (that serves The Law Of The Truest Wish) functions as a collaborative effort, and everyone in your life is a party to your LOA, a narcissistic parent can put a whole lot of blocks in the way […]

Probing or interest? Why do they ask me all these questions?

For the most of us, someone showing interest in what we do and who we are is a positive thing; it is nice when someone finds your life worth talking about. However, when you’re dealing with a narcissist, their interest is not benevolent; they are prying for information that they can use against you should […]

What is the line between narcissism and high self-esteem?

People often confuse being self-satisfied with being narcissistic. This is not truly a good measure to say whether someone is narcissistic or not. However, there is a link between the two: a narcissistic person has an unrealistically positive self-image, and they believe, unrealistically, that others admire them over something that the others might never feel […]

How ego, the idea of self; “who am I” is formulated.

When people discover their identity and who they are, they go through certain phases. This is why “just be yourself” is often unhelpful advice; it’s difficult to even know who that “self” is. To begin with, we have to define how ego, our idea of self, forms. We are a combination of things we enjoy […]

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