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Your True Emotion Mirror is not necessarily impressive or special to ANYONE ELSE but you.

Another funny interpretation of how to determine your True Emotion Mirror when it comes to a somewhat narcissistic way of thinking about them… They wonder if their partner is “impressive enough” to be considered a True Emotion Mirror, and then argue against a True Emotion Mirror (twin flame) coach that they ARE impressive enough… When […]

Why you shouldn’t play “hard to get” if you want true love, even if…

They say rubbish like “Treat them mean, keep them keen,” “Don’t appear too eager,” and “Why would he buy the cow if he can get the milk for free?” All of those sayings are absolute fucking GUNK when it comes to finding true love. They’re based on a narcissistic view of relationships, so your value […]

Let go of incompatible people; as a favour to yourself and them.

Here’s the thing: If you’re different from them, they don’t love you. You don’t love them, and they don’t love you. If you’re incompatible, they can’t wait to get rid of you any more than you can wait to get rid of them. The only thing keeping you with them is that you’re somehow dependent […]

Narcissists** use psychology and religion to control healthy people

Beware, that a part of the narcissistic toolbox of control is psychology, spirituality, and religion, that can be used to manipulate others into believing they are either mentally ill or bad people. We all have some aspects of ourselves that are not necessarily 100% healthy; it is UNUSUAL that a person is completely clear of […]

Beware of people who wish to keep all of your conversations strictly between you two (unless they’re an actual celebrity)

One of the biggest tell-tell signs of a person with a narcissistic personality disorder is that they want to keep all of your conversations strictly private. They make sure YOU know YOU cannot say anything about them to a third party, but that won’t stop them from dishing anything they want to anyone they want. […]

How do you get people to open up to you?

If you’re struggling to get people to open up to you, you likely assume they’re harboring some deep dark secrets. In truth, you may not take this into account at all, but they might. People are likely hiding things like A plan or a life goal/wish they don’t want to be derailed by someone who […]

Race and racism

It is perfectly natural human instinct to love our own likeness and feel awkward and weird around people dissimilar to ourselves. If we expect ourselves to feel instantly cozy and comfortable with people who are very different from us, we’ll be very disappointed with ourselves and others when we cannot do it. We’re not wired […]

A Young Soul* will basically say or do anything to make you stay.

What scares the Young Soul*people more than anything else in this world is to be alone. This surpasses all logic; they’ll let you be the danger they know if the option is being alone. They will let you cheat on them, verbally abuse, hit, kick, and abuse in every way you can, and if they […]

Don’t assume beautiful people don’t get bullied.

There is one thing you should probably understand about beautiful people; they get bullied. A lot. Often by their own parents, but that’s a topic of its own. (Just think of a parent with a narcissistic personality disorder watching a gorgeous teenager develop to take his or her place in the pecking order. A child […]

Narcissistic abuse in the Young Soul*and the Old Souls* dynamics.

For the Young Soul* and a Old Souls* to have wound up in a relationship together, the Young Soul* must have chased the Old Souls* for a relationship. Now, before I continue, I must say that not all narcissistic relationships start the same way, and that True Emotion Mirror relationships can SEEM quite narcissistic at […]

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