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Just because someone is emotionally unavailable to you doesn’t mean they’re “an emotionally unavailable person”

I’m just saying. People have every right not to be emotionally available to you even if they have decided to reserve the right to change their mind later. So they may not be sure if they like you *that much* yet, and keep their emotions under a vail… Doesn’t mean they are emotionally unavailable like […]

A person’s pride in themselves can be irrational and deceiving

It is one symptom of narcissism and can exist as a narcissist trait alone, that a person’s pride in themselves is completely or partially irrational. What is easy for a person is often overlooked by them when what they feel they had to stretch for is a source of pride. While that’s understandable and quite […]

How to catch someone of a fantastical tale (lie)?

People with a histrionic personality disorder need to lie to other people in order to appear interesting to them. This is not about money but rather about a deep-seated belief that they are not interesting enough if they stick to the truth. They have a somewhat childish worldview in which they entertain people with a […]

Asking a narcissist what your girlfriend wants is like asking a 3-year-old.

If you’ve ever asked your 3-year-old for relationship advice, you know that sometimes they can deliver the most poignant, insightful, genius response that you’ve ever heard. They may say it in the most childish way, but it’s SPOT ON. Other times, they’re wonderfully lost and confused. Talking to a narcissist is much the same way. […]

Should a True Emotion Mirror tolerate NOT getting attention from you 24/7?

A person with a narcissistic personality disorder is very attention-hungry. It may be impossible for another person to work and carry on a life outside the relationship with a deeply narcissistic partner who sees all separation as a sign of rejection. A True Emotion Mirror should be feeling even more self-confident and protected going into […]

Would a True Emotion Mirror ever give you silence treatment?

Silence treatment is a very narcissistic method of communication. While it may work between regular lovers, for True Emotion Mirrors, it seems damn near impossible thing to do. That said, just because someone keeps talking to you even when they’re angry doesn’t mean they’re your True Emotion Mirror, and just because someone isn’t talking to […]

A True Emotion Mirror will boost your self-confidence and make you love life.

“I want to take this over,” says my True Emotion Mirror in spirit. “I am famous. CRAZY famous. I love my life – at times – but at times, I hate it. I love the fact my TrEmoR Seb points out that I wouldn’t ever emphasis how famous I am, or act in a pompous […]

Can you truly be in peace if you’re forced to stay in the company of people you cannot stand?

You maybe a spiritual master alone in your room without a pesky spirit attachment tormenting you. However, can you be a spiritual master, calm, peaceful, joyful when you’re accompanied by someone you cannot stand, and there’s nothing you can do to kick them out. Imagine sharing a cell with someone you genuinely cannot understand… No, […]

Elitist, perfectionist, not a narcissist.

Many people probably confuse the concepts of elitism and perfectionism with narcissism, a narcissistic personality disorder. They are not the same thing. A person can be an elitist and a narcissist but they can just as well be a non-elitist but a narcissist. It is somewhat impossible to be a perfectionist and a narcissist simultaneously. […]

What is a difference between a Narcissist and a Idealist* and a Survivalist* thinker?

According to myself, a narcissist is a person who needs to create a false sense of self to cope with their reality. This results in deflecting blame, insensitivity to other people’s views and opinions, and unwillingness to consider other people’s needs as valid (especially if seeing other people’s needs would result in the loss of […]

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