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A narcissist may want to be given a permission to become something to make space for themselves to truly be it.

A narcissist tends to want to pretend to be something before they are; fake it ’till you make it, in other words. The problem with this is that they may not know when they’ve actually made it, and how much of their identity is still just “bought” by the audience. At first, you create a […]

Inconsiderate or deliberate? Is this person a narcissistic manipulator?

Savant* and the Modern think entirely differently. They are like a night and day. Therefore, the Timeless kindness is the opposite of Modern kindness. Savant* typically suffocates their feelings near the Modern, because if the Timeless speaks their mind, it results into an out-and-out war because the Modern typically doesn’t see how their […]

This world is build on demands of the narcissist.

Once we all stop serving the needs of narcissists in this world, we’ll find ourselves a lot freer. A narcissist wants to uphold a false ego; a flattering view of themselves that they show to themselves much more importantly than other people. Stop providing a narcissistic supply While everybody likes to like themselves, a non-narcissist […]

A narcissist is a rejection junkie. They’ll reject you to make you want them more.

A narcissist is really only interested in relationships for the purpose of boosting one’s own self-image or for improving one’s societal stance. When someone rejects them, they feel that person is their superior, and they NEED TO get to that person’s good books. They’ll reject you only if they sense you’re about to reject them, […]

A narcissist or a True Emotion Mirror?

The nasty thing about True Emotion Mirrors (twin flames) and narcissists is that they often resemble each other A LOT. Is something a True Emotion Mirror relationship or a narcissistic relationship, in other words? Can a relationship work with a narcissist if they’re also your True Emotion Mirror? Fast love & Love bombing Both narcissists […]

Love Bombing or True Love?

You know we love to say nice things to people who we love and that is absolutely natural. When we truly fall in love, we shower that person with praise. We cannot get enough of saying nice things about someone we adore. So how do you know it’s “love bombing” and as such. Do they […]

Random thoughts about narcissistic relationships

Narcissists** will always attempt to safe face by blaming all relationship issues on someone else. They fear relationships, and they fear being alone, but when they are once again at the brink of a breakup, they need YOU TO KNOW that IT WAS YOUR FAULT, your ex’s fault, your mother’s fault, maybe your dog’s fault, […]

Narcissistic coping mechanisms: To never be offended or to be offended all the time.

A narcissist does not want to see themselves in a realistic light. They want to maintain a certain “don’t want to look at it” about it. They have two opposite methods of coping with this wish not to see themselves realistically: to avoid all criticism by not taking anything seriously or taking offense in everything […]

You cannot look in the mirror and look for flaws in others.

I asked my mom to look in the mirror in a spirit conversation. She replied: “You think I am not successful and glamorous like your new friends.” That is MY fault, the way she sees it, isn’t it? To remedy it, I should change my opinion about her. (She’s a little off there, too, but […]

When a Modern shows sings of regret and submission, they are not about to leave – they’re waiting for new instructions.

When you’ve banged it into the head of a Modern that they don’t know how to be of assistance to you, as in they’ve ruined your life as a Timeless, they’ll show signs of regret and submission to this fact. However, they’re not leaving – they threaten to leave: “OK, I’ll leave.” This is supposed […]

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