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Narcissists**’ parenting logic: Everything a growing child could possibly need: Status

It is not that a narcissist doesn’t love their child. It’s just that out of all the things in the world, love, joy, pleasure, and kind words included, the only thing they see value in is status. Therefore, they try to help their child to have status and buy the child things that give them […]

Would a person who loves you lie to you?

Short answer: yes. All the time. The fact that someone lies to you is almost automatically a sign of love of some kind rather than disrespect. If they disrespected you, why bother to lie to you? People lie to you because: They fear losing you if they tell you the truth. (Love) Sometimes people believe […]

Narcissistic shopping logic: status

A narcissist buys stuff and befriends people that provide status. No matter how useful, fun, or enjoyable something or someone would be, they cannot see the point of having it or them unless someone high status also has it. (Sometimes, rarely, they can they also predict having something, a friend included, will be a status […]

Stuck in an argument?

Suppose you’re stuck in an argument with someone, and you feel like you’re not quite talking about the same thing or not really getting into the heart of the matter, here’s a clue: A the Timeless is talking about their EMOTIONS. If they’ve already said everything there is about their emotions, they have nothing else […]

Inspire losers wisely – do not make friends you’re not willing to commit to.

Imagine you see a young family with neglected children and you just feel sorry for them. You can take over their lives and hand-hold them into a better life, but as soon as you think they’re good, they collapse again like a potato sack nobody is holding up. Taking over someone’s lifeike that seems like […]

Adult Baby Spirit Mirrors may want you to live a life they feel impressive.

Do you remember being at the age when you wanted your parents or aunts and uncles to live a life you’d find exciting so you’d feel more inspired by them? Your wishes may have been very childish or very much you, but you were too young to do it, so you wished someone attached to […]

If you want true love, do not alter your behavior and approach because they’re man or a woman.

“Men and women” is an illusion. There are the Timeless and the Modern, but they are not gender-linked. You think they are because if you are a Timeless, you’ve gotten used to hands-on the Modern chasing you, or if you’re the Modern, you love to chase the Timeless because you like a challenge. Savant* […]

Reasons people pick flaw in you.

They are threatened by you and try to bring you down a notch so you’d feel equal to them. You’ve been picking a flaw in them for so long that they’re finally retaliating to remind you that you aren’t perfect, either. (This may or may not be a sign of mutual interest.) They’re trying to […]

A narcissist may actually feel all the gratitude that they display on their social media even though their lives are pretty ordinary.

You know the narcissistic social media post, don’t you? “I have such a rich life; I’m blessed.” “I am so grateful of all these wonderful friends I’ve got…” “Life, perfect!” To a normal person, their level of gratitude seems absolutely mental. Cannot be real. We scoff at them when we see their very ordinary life […]

At the end of the day a narcissist will settle for very little.

A narcissist has basically a 0 self worth. It’s all an act and they are painfully aware of it. When they ask you for something, they may bargain over something in a manner that makes no sense to a normal person. All they really want is a photo op and a right to pretend they […]

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