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Sunday, December 22nd, 2024 at
10:41 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Attachment Styles, Emotional Boundaries, Narcissism, relationships, Trust Issues
Narcissists** will always attempt to safe face by blaming all relationship issues on someone else. They fear relationships, and they fear being alone, but when they are once again at the brink of a breakup, they need YOU TO KNOW that IT WAS YOUR FAULT, your ex’s fault, your mother’s fault, maybe your dog’s fault, […]
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Monday, December 16th, 2024 at
8:35 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Narcissism
A narcissist does not want to see themselves in a realistic light. They want to maintain a certain “don’t want to look at it” about it. They have two opposite methods of coping with this wish not to see themselves realistically: to avoid all criticism by not taking anything seriously or taking offense in everything […]
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Wednesday, December 11th, 2024 at
10:39 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
I asked my mom to look in the mirror in a spirit conversation. She replied: “You think I am not successful and glamorous like your new friends.” That is MY fault, the way she sees it, isn’t it? To remedy it, I should change my opinion about her. (She’s a little off there, too, but […]
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Saturday, December 7th, 2024 at
6:11 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism, Thinker Type, Survivalist*
When you’ve banged it into the head of a Survivalist* that they don’t know how to be of assistance to you, as in they’ve ruined your life as a Idealist*, they’ll show signs of regret and submission to this fact. However, they’re not leaving – they threaten to leave: “OK, I’ll leave.” This is supposed […]
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Monday, December 2nd, 2024 at
1:19 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Money and Business, Narcissism, Parenting
It is not that a narcissist doesn’t love their child. It’s just that out of all the things in the world, love, joy, pleasure, and kind words included, the only thing they see value in is status. Therefore, they try to help their child to have status and buy the child things that give them […]
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Sunday, December 1st, 2024 at
10:29 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
Short answer: yes. All the time. The fact that someone lies to you is almost automatically a sign of love of some kind rather than disrespect. If they disrespected you, why bother to lie to you? People lie to you because: They fear losing you if they tell you the truth. (Love) Sometimes people believe […]
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Sunday, December 1st, 2024 at
9:25 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Abuse, Money and Business, Narcissism
A narcissist buys stuff and befriends people that provide status. No matter how useful, fun, or enjoyable something or someone would be, they cannot see the point of having it or them unless someone high status also has it. (Sometimes, rarely, they can they also predict having something, a friend included, will be a status […]
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Thursday, November 21st, 2024 at
7:25 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Arguing, Narcissism
Suppose you’re stuck in an argument with someone, and you feel like you’re not quite talking about the same thing or not really getting into the heart of the matter, here’s a clue: A the Idealist* is talking about their EMOTIONS. If they’ve already said everything there is about their emotions, they have nothing else […]
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Monday, November 18th, 2024 at
12:44 am in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: friends, Narcissism
Imagine you see a young family with neglected children and you just feel sorry for them. You can take over their lives and hand-hold them into a better life, but as soon as you think they’re good, they collapse again like a potato sack nobody is holding up. Taking over someone’s lifeike that seems like […]
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Saturday, November 16th, 2024 at
11:49 pm in Australia - Last edit on
April 5, 2025 Tags: Narcissism
Do you remember being at the age when you wanted your parents or aunts and uncles to live a life you’d find exciting so you’d feel more inspired by them? Your wishes may have been very childish or very much you, but you were too young to do it, so you wished someone attached to […]
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