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If you want true love, do not alter your behavior and approach because they’re man or a woman.

“Men and women” is an illusion. There are the Idealist* and the Survivalist*, but they are not gender-linked. You think they are because if you are a Idealist*, you’ve gotten used to hands-on the Survivalist* chasing you, or if you’re the Survivalist*, you love to chase the Idealist* because you like a challenge. Idealist* […]

Reasons people pick flaw in you.

They are threatened by you and try to bring you down a notch so you’d feel equal to them. You’ve been picking a flaw in them for so long that they’re finally retaliating to remind you that you aren’t perfect, either. (This may or may not be a sign of mutual interest.) They’re trying to […]

A narcissist may actually feel all the gratitude that they display on their social media even though their lives are pretty ordinary.

You know the narcissistic social media post, don’t you? “I have such a rich life; I’m blessed.” “I am so grateful of all these wonderful friends I’ve got…” “Life, perfect!” To a normal person, their level of gratitude seems absolutely mental. Cannot be real. We scoff at them when we see their very ordinary life […]

At the end of the day a narcissist will settle for very little.

A narcissist has basically a 0 self worth. It’s all an act and they are painfully aware of it. When they ask you for something, they may bargain over something in a manner that makes no sense to a normal person. All they really want is a photo op and a right to pretend they […]

The most likely reason a man “rapes” a woman is because he believes she wants it.

Men, typically, are no where near as brutal towards women as the woke feminists like to believe. (Why is another matter, power and control, to put it short.) A “rapist” is most likely under the impression the woman wants him. Whether because he has a narcissist personality disorder and he believes himself to be amazing, […]

Never again not notice how gracefully men put themselves down to elevate the female ego…

…and make them stop. 😀 The worst thing you can do to a person is to build them a false ego. It is ironically nearly always done with love, out of love, but never out of respect. Men are wonderful. They bend over backward to make women feel like they’re worthy and capable. And often, […]

How do you give up on love that you have potentially wasted years trying to resuscitate?

So you love that person, still. Desperately, but they seem not to respond to you the way you want them to. No matter how much you beg, plead, or cry, they are just not responding to your feelings. How do you move on? I know your real question is how do you force them to […]

Another Are You Actually In Love or is this some other kind of bullshit -test

Can you agree with this statement: There is no shame in loving this person because they are awesome, and you aren’t too stupid or self-centered to notice. If you feel it’s to YOUR CREDIT that you love them, it doesn’t sound like love but that you’re obsessed with them for some other reason? You want […]

There are demons in this world, there are narcissists, and selfish people, but there is NO EVIL.

I promise, there is no such thing in this world as inherent evil. Everybody works from either self-defense or the belief they are doing the right thing. From demons to witches to a common-ass narcissist or a psychopath. This includes Satan as it includes Hitler and Lucifer (all different people), devil worshippers, and it includes […]

You can have it, but there are rules.

Nobody can have certain things for free. If you keep asking for a grand prize as a gift, you defeat the whole point of the prize. You can, of course, go get yourself a trophy from a shop, but what does that prove except that you’re a fishin’ narcissist? You can have anything anyone else […]

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