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Cat Type Thinking* narcissism is suppressed pride

… where as Lover-thinking* narcissism is about an inflated pride and self-confidence. Both are about false self, one negative self-image, one is positive self-image – over-positive. And when the Idealists* avoids falling into Lover-thinking* narcissism they land into an attempt to suppress one’s own ego; “selfishness” when it’s what’s fair, pride when it’s realism… […]

What does “common people’s” love feel like?

Geniuses like to tell each other love stories in the movies about special someone’s unique people who are right for each other alone. The Idealists* love that because they love feeling special for someone unique like themselves. But what a genius finds difficult to understand is the way normal people couple up and why […]

A True Emotion Mirror bond never feels bad. If your connection feels bad, it’s something else.

Intense soulmate connections happen. Some of them feel good, some of them feel bad. The ones that feel bad are about something other than a True Emotion Mirror connection. A True Emotion Mirror always feels good to you, even if it goes dreadfully wrong. Even when you’re not talking, you feel better just knowing they’re […]

Narcissism self-check. Are you a narcissist?

We all have narcissistic traits. Some of the traits that I consider narcissistic are actually pretty good in principle, as long as there’s some safety guards in place. Therefore, where do we draw the line between “normal” (even if not perfect) and narcissism? This is my division point: Think to yourself: Is it important to […]

A narcissist will try to make any relationship LOOK LIKE a True Emotion Mirror or Precious Soulmate relationship, and thinks everyone else does the same.

A narcissist is a person who fears strangers and life itself to their very core. They don’t trust anybody; their life is about survival and finding shelter. They do this by lifting their status by any means they can. One of the ways they can do this is to obtain a partner who loves them. […]

“I don’t love you” means “I don’t want to be with you” not “I’m not fulfilling my end of the bargain.”

the Survivalist* may understand “I don’t love you” as an apology: “I am not doing enough to make you safe and secure.” Therefore, a conversation like this can take place: the Idealists*: “I don’t love you. We need to break up.” the Survivalist*: “It’s OK, I love you. We don’t need to […]

You don’t want them to lose you? What fucking narcissistic crap is that?!

First of all, if they don’t care enough about you to mind their steps around you, maybe they don’t deserve you. Second of all, if you think you have to bend backward so that someone else doesn’t lose you… Oh fuck me… That’s some narcissistic mothafucking crap right there. I guarantee you that you ain’t […]

When a person who has met their True Emotion Mirror rejects you, is it real?

A True Emotion Mirror rejecting their True Emotion Mirror isn’t real, right? So the question remains: when a person you’ve been involved with in one way or another meets their True Emotion Mirror, will they permanently reject everyone else around them? The answer to this question very much depends on whether you want the #1 […]

Taking credit over someone else’s work or a coincidence.

This is a taroty post (incomplete as a theoretical post). I’d check to see if a person you know is taking credit for someone else’s work or a coincidence. “Yeah, that unlucky thing..? I made that happen because you didn’t agree to X.” A narcissist can use this to make themselves seem scarier and or […]

No link between talking about emotions and emotions?

the Survivalist* may struggle to understand a link between emotions and talking about them or the trigger for them. If you say, “You did this,” no matter how clearly offensive it was, the Survivalist* cannot necessarily understand what that information relates to. This doesn’t mean Survivalist* don’t have emotions; they do. It’s […]

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