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Ladies, why are you impressed by polyandrous women?

Is it fear of men? You admire a polyandrous woman for “handling men”? How she controls the big, scary male folk? Men are impressive yes. They can be a bit daunting in the sense of having a freaking handle on everything, can’t they? Still, a polyandrous woman is not with people she’s afraid of, she’s […]

Polygamous dynamics around Polygynandry

Polygamists are far from cut from one wood. This is why people who try polyamory often come out of it disappointed, saying “polyamory doesn’t work.” If you try to put two different types of polygamists into the same mashup, you’ll fail for sure. In addition, quoting Carl Jung; “The meeting of two personalities is like […]

Polyandrous men can feel a type of… Fear of hidden female-to-female-attraction.

Naturally polyandrous (MFM) men are not particularly turned on or excited about the lesbian fantasy that both polygynandrous (MFMF) and polygynous (FMF) men can harbor. These two latter types connect to the poly fantasy that involves several women. Still, a polyandrous man doesn’t really enjoy that female bonding or female attraction any more than polygynous […]

Polygynandry as the ideal default relationship form – even for teens.

I find it absolutely insane that we expect our teenagers to form loyalty to someone who will eventually turn out to be a temporary love interest down the line. Faithfulness is not a skill you learn in adolescence; it should be a natural reaction to your natural partner, not something that needs enforcing. If someone […]

Polyandrous women have a host of coping mechanisms for losing their True Emotion Mirrors.

For us polyandrous women, the ability to let go of the men we love has been an essential life skill to learn in monogamous societies. You know you can only have one, and basically, you’re just waiting to find out which one of them will risk being made into a fool when your other True […]

Non-monogamy

Typically, we have been raised to believe that monogamy is the height of romance and true love. I beg to disagree on that front. I believe most people are naturally non-monogamous, not all of us, possibly, but the majority of us. By non-monogamy, I don’t mean we are non-committing or promiscuous, but that we want […]

How a Cat Type Thinkers polyandrous male star can protect themselves against the Dog Type Thinkerpolygynous female fan base.

Believe it or not, polyandrous the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking men prefer a male audience. Maybe not ALL-male audience, but mainly male audience. There are, in fact,  two ways for men to protect themselves from the wrong type: rough looks or a talent that other professionals and serious hobbyists cannot deny… Or both. If a […]

Polygamy isn’t about “freedom”, it’s as much about commitment as monogamy is, just with more than one person.

Many people think that polyamorous people are looking for FREEDOM and DETACHMENT from other people. This is not at all what polyamory is about, at least not to all people. I personally prefer to use the word polyGAMY rather than polyamory, because it clearly states an alternative to monoGAMY, a type of marriage, a commitment […]

Polyandrous women may not be as nurturing as other women are.

Polyandrous: natural leaning toward a committed marriage like relationship between one woman and several men. Polygynous: natural leaning toward a committed marriage like relationship between one man and several women. (Often understood as polygamy, but correctly called polygyny.) Polygynandry: natural leaning toward a committed marriage like relationship between several men and several women simultaneously. If […]

Easy way to decide if someone is your poly-bonded True Emotion Mirror

The signs that you are directly somebody’s direct True Emotion Mirror is one thing, but to be in the same TrEmoR Soup with someone is another. It is somewhat difficult to assess another person in terms of whether they are your True Emotion Mirror or not because we tend to have this tendency of photoshopping […]

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