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Good looks is VITALLY important for (monogamist) True Emotion Mirrors

I want to present something rather controversial as far as the idea of true love goes. I believe that good looks is more often than not the key factor in whether a True Emotion Mirror relationship gets off the ground or not. When a person gets into a relationship with someone less attractive than what […]

Polyamorous tendencies are inborn. Are you poly?

You might not have been aware that you are, in fact, polyamorous by nature. You might have noticed something before. Regardless, like many others, you are so used to the monogamous expectation that you haven’t really thought it through. You may think it is normal that your relationships are a bit of a drag at […]

True Emotion Mirror – Poly Flame

Essentially what the argument over whether or not there can be multiple True Emotion Mirrors boils down to is this: Most people not only accept but insist on the fact that True Emotion Mirrors DO NOT meet in their last incarnation only, but that they meet several times across incarnations. They would also, thus, easily […]

The midway point between polygyny and polyandry

I blog A LOT about polygyny and polyandry, but I often leave out the midway point to this, the possibility of several men and several women forming a committed relationship to each other. (I also often ignore monogamy, but I think you all know that beast.) A polygynandrous relationship is, in my view, a GREAT […]

Naturally Polygynous Women Can Have A Hard Time Respecting Men and Their Views

I know this sounds like finger-pointing, but it really is just a sign of a natural sexual alignment more specific than hetero, bi, or homosexuality. In addition, we also have countless of variations, among them the leaning towards different types of polyamory. In this case, polygyny means what most people know as “polygamy” which is […]

How I discovered polyandry

The stereotype is that monogamy is the spiritual form of love. I disagree, and so do many other polyamorists. The reason why people reject their polyamorous side is not spiritual, but habitual. We reject it believing we are hurting someone in a polyamorous relationship, whichever form of it you prefer. I was just as much […]

Which Poly-Mono Relationship Type?

In your heart of hearts, which relationship type sounds the most exciting, fun, and sexy to you? Which type sounds like, “Of course, everyone in my position would do that IF they felt it was OK!” One man is chased by a bunch of wonderful women he adores, while the women have a playful competition […]

“After you, dear Alphonse”, – Why “No Jealousy” is a Bad Poly-policy.

Polyamorists often feel proud of feeling no jealousy over their partners. However, jealousy can be a powerful aphrodisiac to people who are used to having everyone by the snap of their fingers, and who feel that they are having things a little too easy at times… and love the idea of having same-gender partners who are equal to them and well equipped to stealing attention from them at times…

Sexuality and Poly-relationships and Platonic Gender Preferences

I haven’t even TOUCHED on stuff like cross-dressing, transgender stuff, pan-sexuality and all of that, I am still just talking everyday normal people who go about their days thinking “this is what sex is, and this is what I’m used to”, and I find enough possible type combinations to make anyone want to shoot themselves. […]

How and why Naturally Polygynous Gynephile women cheat

This post is the sibling to the previous Why do Polyandrous Androphile men cheat -post, that you might want to read if that makes more sense in your brain. I will keep both posts available for you all because it is just interesting to see how the dynamics work in different configurations. One of the best signs of […]

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