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Why do you love your True Emotion Mirror more than you love your child?

There is some expectation in some people that they get to act like children with their True Emotion Mirrors (and non-related Precious Soulmates) because True Emotion Mirrors should love them more than their child. The reason why your True Emotion Mirror loves you more than they love their child is LARGELY BECAUSE THEY DON’T ACT […]

Narcissists’ parenting logic: Everything a growing child could possibly need: Status

It is not that a narcissist doesn’t love their child. It’s just that out of all the things in the world, love, joy, pleasure, and kind words included, the only thing they see value in is status. Therefore, they try to help their child to have status and buy the child things that give them […]

Do not have relationships to please God or your parents.

And for the love of God don’t have kids to please someone else. The last thing we need in this world is a bunch of unwanted children for an unwilling parent, if we need more people at all. We’ve got enough people, thanks. Have children if it pleases you. Have relationships if it pleases you. […]

You have to raise your children so you can trust them to handle themselves when they grow up.

There is a weird spiritual phenomenon that is there to protect us from mind control. It prevents a person from doing anything that an outside force is trying to make them do – even if it is for their own protection or to help someone else. If another entity tries to push another into doing […]

You have every right to be biased toward your own children.

Let’s stop one thing right here, shall we? Treating your children as “privileged” because they’re yours. We all have to survive our own parents, and parents who treat their children as if they’ve got some halo of luck for being theirs are not going to be making their children’s lives any better. If everyone else […]

Don’t ever warn a grown man from misbehaving before an event – he’s not your child.

I’m only going to say this once because if you don’t remember this from now on, you don’t deserve yourself a real man. If you treat a man like a little boy who doesn’t know his manners, you rob him of the chance to impress you with his manners. Imagine this scenario: You leave for […]

Fake competence and self-confidence with the Dog Type Thinker Thinking parent.

the Dog Type Thinker are tricky for a Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child to understand. A the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking child or adult will expect their parent to accept that “OK, the Offspring looks like they know what they’re doing. They’re not going to kill themselves by simply being an idiot. They know how […]

Getting unstuck from parents: Decide on “how are you going to support yourself”?

There are two types of thinkers. We tend to mix and match poorly, but mixing and matching we do regardless. When your parents are very pragmatic and you are somewhat of a happy-go-lucky type, hoping that something will come up when the Planets align, it probably won’t happen for you. Your parents will never let […]

If you want romantic love, stop expecting people to treat you like your parent.

There are ton of people whose idea of love is limited to parental love. It will always destroy romantic and sexual love sooner or later. Parental love CANNOT be used as a template for romantic love. This is the reason: If one person is looking for a new mom or dad, they’re going to test […]

When to let go of your child reaching adulthood?

For parents, it can be difficult to let go of the control and parenting of their child. When is the right time? As with everything, the answer is different between the Dog Type Thinker and the Cat Type Thinkers. Here’s the formula: the Cat Type Thinkers Thinking parents tend to rush letting go, and the […]

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